On 2021-01-16 10:01:43 balasbak said:
Sounds like there is a lot more involved here ... hope parties can reach an amicable resolution whatever the circumstances may be ...
I do agree.
I will say this though.
In life we form opinions in a few ways about other people.
1) The public image someone puts out there.
2) The mass opinion of others out there about someone.
3) The opinion of people we know and trust that had personal experiences with someone.
3) Personal experiences with that someone.
The same way we form those opinions we have of someone is the same way they either get reinforced or changed.
This is person experience between these two well known individuals that has derailed like a fast train on a broken track.
I can tell you all this, both are hurting right now. My sympathy goes both ways as the photo story is but the tip of an iceberg.
And I think we should let them work this out on their own.
Sometimes things goes from bad to worse because of the opinions of others that have no clue what was and is happening at all.
Edited: 2021-01-16 17:37:15
I know from personal experience that he helped a lady I referred to him. Not expecting anything back in return.
If memory serves me right, then Mersedes was one of the recipients.
Yes he sent a pic. Not very gentlemanly. Then again, we are the bottom feeders. Fucknuts of note. Fact. What do you really expect ? Some ethics on a porn site ? LOL
If he bought it, it is his property. Simple fact. If she let him take a pic, it is still his property and he can do whatever he wants with it. John Adams is correct that it opens up a shitstorm.
I can enlarge a pic on this site, take a pic with my phone and send it to anyone I care to send it to. Who is going to stop me ? No one.
That is the risk that you have to accept when coming on to this site. Your privacy is not guaranteed. By the very nature of advertising yourself you are open to being recognised one way or the other.
This will forever be a conundrum.
And a sobering thought. Soft lockdown is upon us once more. The virus is more aggressive. At some time even us will start recognising the dangers we put ourselves in by continuing to punt away.
Ystervark won't be there again to help those in need.
Good luck
PS
And people have short memories.
Varkie did good during lockdown. Give him that.
On 2021-01-16 07:34:32 Lucky Jumper said:
A photo without a face and all clothed sent to a single lady to ask if she sells similar photos.
Yes im guilty of that.
Then she did not have them and i was not interested in what she had, so she started a shitstorm.
So yes. Thats me. Judge away.
Your friends will understand and your enemies wont believe you.
Ai this is not cool at all honest mistake and boom shit storm..
But no one will remember how you actually supported so many ladies with their online videos and photos that was promoted by you.
to so many punters who asked you for good References..
Sorry to here that you made a Human mistake.. Let's all just Remember we all do so. And Bare in mind and I'm only saying this due to the fact that it was written on this topic the content wasn't nude or sold for a benefit.
On 2021-01-16 16:07:09 Lesley said:
You are correct MissRed, however most of the time actions speak louder than words.
On 2021-01-16 16:07:09 Lesley said:
You are correct MissRed, however most of the time actions speak louder than words.
Very true to a point... But one action on one particular day or towards one person does not define you or me or her or him as a person.
We are not one dimetional objects we are multi dimetional human beings that can not be defined by one action alone.
As Bruv said memories are short and unfortunately the world just works that way you will always be judged by your worst day and not your best day.
That is why in my post I stated I do not know either parties. I felt I needed to clarify that there was no malicious intent.
On 2021-01-16 20:51:19 Lesley said:
MissRed
That is why in my post I stated I do not know either parties. I felt I needed to clarify that there was no malicious intent.
Lesley, you did the right thing by posting on the girls forums.
The fact that Mercedes posted it here is not your problem.
Yystervark , very surprise what you did !
On 2021-01-16 20:51:19 Lesley said:
MissRed
That is why in my post I stated I do not know either parties. I felt I needed to clarify that there was no malicious intent.
I agree with peterm..
U where not in the wrong at all. And I am sorry if anything I said so far has given that impression that I think it was wrong to post that warning.
I must admit at first I thought why if u knew the lady did u not warn her first before posting,so she can deal with this how she sees fit.
But u did help us right by saying you did not regonize or know her or even him for that matter.
And the post was not just about that photo but about you and him discussing your services and how u felt disrespected by his conduct. And you had every right to air your opinion.
There is a saying that the road of good intentions are paved with thorns, you just accidentally landed face first in a pothole filled with thorns on this one. ;)
On 2021-01-16 20:51:19 Lesley said:
MissRed
That is why in my post I stated I do not know either parties. I felt I needed to clarify that there was no malicious intent.
Exactly, you didn't know either of them form the info sent.
Only the 2 knew. So you're actually the ones that distributed this image and into publicly then because you disagreed on the pictures you did or didn't supply and now we have a hurt wg and punter who otherwise would probably still have a great relationship. Wow!
On 2021-01-17 00:52:37 Need4Passion said:
On 2021-01-16 20:51:19 Lesley said: MissRed
That is why in my post I stated I do not know either parties. I felt I needed to clarify that there was no malicious intent.
Exactly, you didn't know either of them form the info sent.
Only the 2 knew. So you're actually the ones that distributed this image and into publicly then because you disagreed on the pictures you did or didn't supply and now we have a hurt wg and punter who otherwise would probably still have a great relationship. Wow!
That's pretty unfair towards her. ;(
She reported because she felt he was disrespectful towards her and towards the lady he was showing her the pictures of.
Which he most certainly was and no one can deny.
I am sure she did not send tge photo to anyone. She only reported his number and by that number alone he was recognized by many.
And it does not take rocket science to figure out who the lady was he was referring to as his regular. It is there to see for anyone that reads reviews or forum posts. Someone must have told her to go look at the post or she found it herself.
So how is the lady that reported it to blame for their "broken relationship".?
That was broken before the photo thing was even reported, it is clear looking at the posts and listening to both of them!
Her reporting him was just the straw that broke the camels back and brought it all to the forum for all to see. Which is very sad.
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