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I supported her over the course of the lock down by booking and paying for several sessions for when the lock down relaxes.

Some weeks back(7/7), she was supposed to come for dinner and fun. Shortly before the time she phoned me.
She was VERY upset and said something serious had come up and that she would not be able to make it. I have known her for some time and she really did sound very upset.

So we spoke the following day. Was very upset and claimed that she was being harassed by debt collectors. I was inclined to believe her and felt compassion for her serious predicament
so I made a plan and helped her out of the immediate threat. In hind sight, it was probably scam and nothing more than a way to extract a bit more money from the walking cash register.

I had a financial dispute with her friend which may
play a role in the following:

I have made many attempts to get in touch and open some dialog since she owes me a number of sessions. Or alternatively refund me for them. She refuses to enter into any sort of discussion. Initially she would message that she can talk at particular time and then change her mind later and then simply not bother to
answer at all. I have tried to phone her many, many times. It seems it is some sort of petty game to her.

Bottom line, sessions were paid for during the lock down and now she refuses to honnor her debt. Since this was "lock down assistance" I find find it especially disgusting. And simply refusing to even discuss it, childish.

In light of all this, I am done with this industry.

Pay as you go rules in this world. Unless one helps and not expecting anything in return.

So Mr Major..Your school fees have been paid. Write it off and forget about it.. They call it "An Irrecoverable Bad Debt" .. Follow Cadbury's ( TopDeck) advise above. Pay as you Go and don't expect anything in return .. LOL

If you send all your prove (which I hope you have) to Esa they will investigate and she will be banned.

Sorry this happened to you.

Life lessons!!! sorry you lost tom in this humanitarian effort of yours but this is a topic that has seen the forum since 2004 frequently, I will be very amazed if you ever get a cent or a booking in return but I can identify with you and what you're now going through, As for being finished with the industry! I highly doubt it at best I see you changing your name and not helping the SP in the future they are wonderful masters of manipulation they make you feel great and they make you feel weak never loan a cent your not prepared to part with wholeheartedly.

Good luck majorjohn

On 2020-08-24 13:45:12 DocDee said:
So Mr Major..Your school fees have been paid. Write it off and forget about it.. They call it "An Irrecoverable Bad Debt" .. Follow Cadbury's ( TopDeck) advise above. Pay as you Go and don't expect anything in return .. LOL

Actually I have written it off already. This was more of a public service announcement.

On 2020-08-24 13:48:41 majorjohn said:

Actually I have written it off already. This was more of a public service announcement.

School Fees brother.. I think at some time or another ALL of us "Old Purpie Punters" have been caught somehow.. But thats this purple world we play in.. Its all part of life experiences.. LOL

On 2020-08-24 13:56:00 DocDee said:
On 2020-08-24 13:48:41 majorjohn said:
Actually I have written it off already. This was more of a public service announcement.


School Fees brother.. I think at some time or another ALL of us "Old Purpie Punters" have been caught somehow.. But thats this purple world we play in.. Its all part of life experiences.. LOL

Absolutely true Most guys that have been on here for more than 3 years has lost "roobles" in a similar way ! Charity begins at home.

Its so sad that girls like this take advantage and get helped to only screw the guys over and then those of us who really really really do need genuine assistance and are NOT con artists get ignored when we need the help. Maybe you guys should be a bit more DISCERNING as to who you are willing to "help". Stick to the LADIES with Standards and you may not get burned like this. I didnt get a spot of "Help" when I needed it badly.

Report the sp to ESA ASAP please. We need to clean up esa of SP's and Punters alike who are ............ feel free to fill in the blank

That's why I call myself "DocDee" .. I have a doctorate in this purple world.. Been around for a good few years .. Seen it all , Done it all , Played in it ..But I must say,I've had a lot of fun over the years ...Heheheheheehe..