Actually not the first time for me either.
But had some surprises too.

On 2020-08-24 13:56:00 DocDee said:
On 2020-08-24 13:48:41 majorjohn said:
Actually I have written it off already. This was more of a public service announcement.


School Fees brother.. I think at some time or another ALL of us "Old Purpie Punters" have been caught somehow.. But thats this purple world we play in.. Its all part of life experiences.. LOL

Actually not the first time for me either, but not on this scale.
But I have had some very pleasant surprises too when I did not expect much.

On 2020-08-24 13:59:07 Victoria said:
Its so sad that girls like this take advantage and get helped to only screw the guys over and then those of us who really really really do need genuine assistance and are NOT con artists get ignored when we need the help. Maybe you guys should be a bit more DISCERNING as to who you are willing to "help". Stick to the LADIES with Standards and you may not get burned like this. I didnt get a spot of "Help" when I needed it badly.

Report the sp to ESA ASAP please. We need to clean up esa of SP's and Punters alike who are ............ feel free to fill in the blank

It is really hard to know who you can trust.
PS. I know you are super level headed and a person of integrity.

On 2020-08-24 13:34:25 majorjohn said:
K!nky M!nx
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

I supported her over the course of the lock down by booking and paying for several sessions for when the lock down relaxes.

Some weeks back(7/7), she was supposed to come for dinner and fun. Shortly before the time she phoned me.
She was VERY upset and said something serious had come up and that she would not be able to make it. I have known her for some time and she really did sound very upset.

So we spoke the following day. Was very upset and claimed that she was being harassed by debt collectors. I was inclined to believe her and felt compassion for her serious predicament
so I made a plan and helped her out of the immediate threat. In hind sight, it was probably scam and nothing more than a way to extract a bit more money from the walking cash register.

I had a financial dispute with her friend which may
play a role in the following:

I have made many attempts to get in touch and open some dialog since she owes me a number of sessions. Or alternatively refund me for them. She refuses to enter into any sort of discussion. Initially she would message that she can talk at particular time and then change her mind later and then simply not bother to
answer at all. I have tried to phone her many, many times. It seems it is some sort of petty game to her.

Bottom line, sessions were paid for during the lock down and now she refuses to honnor her debt. Since this was "lock down assistance" I find find it especially disgusting. And simply refusing to even discuss it, childish.

In light of all this, I am done with this industry.

The is a thread about punter/WG friendships. This is an example when the lines are blurry. Even as a WG,You don't lend money to another WG. It comes with stories.

Hope you find a way to solve your problem. Or make peace and move on.

To be fair, this corona plandemic is a unique situation and not your usual "loan you money" scenario. Many benevolent people helped those in need and it was widely advertised here that it would be "paid back in kind" after lockdown.
A recent thread showed that many advertisers were honoring this arrangement or there was no other feedback from benefactors to the contrary. As far as i know this is the first negative one. Having said that, good on you, majorjohn, that you helped someone in need despite the fact that the recipient did not reciprocate. Shame on her and hats off to you.

This is one of the reasons industry has a stigma attached to it and drugs are another one. More often than not they go hand in hand.

I am sorry you had to Experience this.

Unfortunately not everyone in this industry has integrity sometimes even people you think you can trust are the ones who cannot be trusted.

I myself speak from personal experience with some very popular ladies on ESA.

This is unfortunately the sad reality of this industry.

Though Remember that there are always Diamonds in the rough, so keep the faith ;)

On 2020-08-24 14:07:40 Vanessa Moabi said:
On 2020-08-24 13:34:25 majorjohn
The is a thread about punter/WG friendships. This is an example when the lines are blurry. Even as a WG,You don't lend money to another WG. It comes with stories.

Hope you find a way to solve your problem. Or make peace and move on.

Certainly wise words.
But the circumstances were a bit extraordinary and everyone needed to stick to together. That is what really gets to me.

And so it begins...

This is going to be one of many of these kinds of posts.

On 2020-08-24 15:01:21 majorjohn said:
On 2020-08-24 14:07:40 Vanessa Moabi said: On 2020-08-24 13:34:25 majorjohn
The is a thread about punter/WG friendships. This is an example when the lines are blurry. Even as a WG,You don't lend money to another WG. It comes with stories.

Hope you find a way to solve your problem. Or make peace and move on.

Certainly wise words.
But the circumstances were a bit extraordinary and everyone needed to stick to together. That is what really gets to me.

Coming from someone who been burnt for trying to help(too many times) I feel your pain. Because you don't want the other person to go through what you been through(ubuntu). What's done is done. If it was a WG complaining about a punter that didn't pay her,it would be a different story. Why treat this different?

I don't know the nature of the relationship between 2 parties. Hoping this ordeal doesn't change your kind nature. You have a choice to go have a conversation with the lady to come to an agreement or let it go. Cut your loses. We teach people how to treat us.

So I just have to say that in all my dealings with Ms Minx I have had nothing buy positive experiences...

What one always has to remember in these situations is that there are more than one side to the story...

Please lets not use words like fraud around a service provider unless it has been substantiated by an independent party... These things have the ability to destroy a career...

Just my 2c

On 2020-08-24 17:17:36 elvand4r said:
So I just have to say that in all my dealings with Ms Minx I have had nothing buy positive experiences...

What one always has to remember in these situations is that there are more than one side to the story...

Please lets not use words like fraud around a service provider unless it has been substantiated by an independent party... These things have the ability to destroy a career...

Just my 2c

Perhaps she can come and share her side of the story as this is a serious alteration.