The whole thing comes down to trust.
It is hard to find a WG you can trust enough to operate on the same wavelength. The wider you cast your net, you will catch all sorts. I am very picky (hence short booking at first till I feel comfortable). If they ask for money, I lend what I can afford not to chase after. They should not make a habit of it. I have been in cases where our ladies end up doing what they claimed they do not do, so I would write-off the small loan to those "extra" days LOL.

I don't get scammed very often because I mostly stick to seeing my regulars.
Now and then I see a new lady, and if I get scammed, so be it, I never see her again.

But when seeing a new lady, if things work out well, and trust is built over a few more sessions, she will likely become a regular.

On 2020-12-01 19:04:58 Mike40 said:
I don't get scammed very often because I mostly stick to seeing my regulars.
Now and then I see a new lady, and if I get scammed, so be it, I never see her again.

But when seeing a new lady, if things work out well, and trust is built over a few more sessions, she will likely become a regular.

Totally agree with you.
At the moment I found my one stop SP and am a really happy camper. If she asks for money and doesn't return it, I will not even bother asking. She is so good at her job I think I should be paying her far more. Hope she will read this.