Hi guys I am ask in because I hope that someone on here will know how I can fight a scam. I was chatting to someone online and Lon story short some pretty steamy discussions took place. Then she asked for money and I experienced idiot that I was I send money via e wallet this gave her (or them) my details. Now I am being blackmailed. It I not a lady from this site may I add.

I'd just block the number and entertain no further

Unfortunately they have my real name, and they are threatening to publish it, the steamy discussion plus a pic of me on social media.

Anyone can publish any steamy discussion and a pic of you right now. They not going to get anything from it.

If you keep paying though, they keep getting and they got you by the balls.

A scammer can only stretch his/her resources by how long the victim takes the bait.

Agree just ignore them

If it goes onto social media I will lose my job my marriage has grown pretty stale so maybe this will just be the final straw it needed. I would not like my daughter's to see any of it though.

Go to the cops then. It is legit extortion.

@swerwer001, I emphasize with you but unfortunately, if the lady does not advertiser with us then we can not entertain the discussion.

We have advertisers offering a wide range of services on our site and we do not want this to reflect badly on them.

I think it is best that you take it up with the people who are blackmailing you or the police.

Regards
Antionette
ESA Support

Got it Antoinette. Definitely was not a lady from this site as I said in my initial post. Was just hoping for some good advice from the experienced folks on esa. And got some good advice I think.
I will stop chatting on this stream now.