Edited: 2020-05-20 14:39:10
Are you the type to favour bluntness or subtlety when it comes various subjects? Straight to the point in no uncertain terms, or innuendo and euphemisms?
Post an example of each side, and if you want, which is closer to your own approach.
Eg: "I want to fuck your tight asshole" vs "Do you enjoy anal babe?"
fine line between blunt and crude..
I prefer subtle or out right blunt above someone being vague or crude..;)
It also depends where the conversation comes from and with who you having that conversation.
BAD BREATH...
To a stranger u might say...
Did u have garlic with lunch?(Subtle)
Do u smell something bad really bad?.
(Vague)
The fist will give then an excuse that u provided for the bad breath and a chance to rectify it before imbarrasing themselves futher.
The second will not help them in anyway at all.
But to a family member u might say..
GEEZ I think you need to go brush your mouth.
(Blunt)
Your breath smell like u gave a dead camel a blow job .
(Crude)
The first would not offend in family structures. But the second is just crude and uncalled for.
On 2020-05-20 15:43:49 Louise ( Miss Red) said:
fine line between subtle and vague.
fine line between blunt and crude..
I prefer subtle or out right blunt above someone being vague or crude..;)
It also depends where the conversation comes from and with who you having that conversation.
BAD BREATH...
To a stranger u might say...
Did u have garlic with lunch?(Subtle)
Do u smell something bad really bad?.
(Vague)
The fist will give then an excuse that u provided for the bad breath and a chance to rectify it before imbarrasing themselves futher.
The second will not help them in anyway at all.
But to a family member u might say..
GEEZ I think you need to go brush your mouth.
(Blunt)
Your breath smell like u gave a dead camel a blow job .
(Crude)
The first would not offend in family structures. But the second is just crude and uncalled for.
Very true. I tend to err towards too subtle at times, and equally if someone is too subtle with me I often end up missing the hint, and therefore the opportunity.
It's strange, I prefer people being blunt with me, yet I go for subtlety.
I guess it's reflective of my personality.
I was hoping for some comic relief to come out of this thread.
Maybe some of the ladies have a story about when they said something innocuous and a client mistook it for a coded message?
I know a guy who was convinced that if an MG invited him to shower with her it was an invitation for FH.
It happened often enough to him that he figured it was always the case, until he tried to slip into a MG who really just meant a shower together with some soapy tug action.
It took him a long while to convince her of his story and allow him back to the venue.
The level of bluntness depends on how well I know you.
I've gained weight in the last three years, I know it and unless you are blind, you would not notice.
You can say, for instance: You've become quite round since the last time I saw you' (if I know you well).
If you don't, you could say 'You've become considerably voluptuous since the last time we met'
You don't have to pretend you didn't notice at all. I know I'm not the size I was. Even if you just called me fat, I would take it from who it comes. X
On 2020-05-20 15:43:49 Louise ( Miss Red) said:
fine line between subtle and vague.
fine line between blunt and crude..
I prefer subtle or out right blunt above someone being vague or crude..;)
It also depends where the conversation comes from and with who you having that conversation.
BAD BREATH...
To a stranger u might say...
Did u have garlic with lunch?(Subtle)
Do u smell something bad really bad?.
(Vague)
The fist will give then an excuse that u provided for the bad breath and a chance to rectify it before imbarrasing themselves futher.
The second will not help them in anyway at all.
But to a family member u might say..
GEEZ I think you need to go brush your mouth.
(Blunt)
Your breath smell like u gave a dead camel a blow job .
(Crude)
The first would not offend in family structures. But the second is just crude and uncalled for.
So your breath smells like ass is not an acceptable remark??
It's strange, I prefer people being blunt with me, yet I go for subtlety.
I guess it's reflective of my personality.
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Maybe try to hang out with Dutch people. You would get used to directness very quickly... or develop a complex lol
Bluntness:
"I feel your hardrock cock inside me babe, fuck I want you to come inside me, I wanna feel your shaft throbbing inside my pussy, yes, right there babe, fuck me with your hard cock babe, deeper, deeper, deeper". Which can put a lot of pressure to a man sometimes.
and
Subtleties
"Love you some sweet sugar hun? Tell me how much you like that boo boo. Oh feel that, they are greeting each other, say hello to nana!" Which can make a man feel weak in the knees sometimes.
Neutrality:
"I'm cumming, I'm cumming....aaaaahh.....ohhhhhhh babe I'm cumming. Fuck, fuck, fuck.......aaaaah aaaah aaaah...aaah. Oh that was sooooooo goooooood. You're delicious babe"!
And at times it does happen that I do not fully climax and that is still ok. I had tad bits in between (multiple orgasms) which is more than enough.
What I fail to do, dismally, is fake an orgasm.
Best of both worlds.
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