So this is a question for the ladies...and any of the guys who might have been in a similar position.

I've been an on and off punter for about a year - I don't really punt much to be honest and was thinking of just stopping altogether.

However, during this time I've come across a few girls who are genuinely nice people and who I would like to interact with as friends outside of the bedroom.

I'm not sure whether this is a weird question but what I would like to know is twofold:

1. Firstly, if I wanted to be friends with a WG how would I approach this? I don't want the girl to think that I'm looking for a fwb thing so how do I approach it.

2. Secondly, is it wise? I've read so many stories on the platform about girls duping guys and how the girls have to act all nice and pretend to like us but in reality they aren't and never will be our friends. The thing is, I've met some genuinely nice girls and I've seen 'friendships' develop between punters and WGs. Am I so crazy to want that?

Some of you girls are sincerely the most intelligent and brightest people that I have ever met and I realise that this job is just a means to an end. Problem is that too often is the case that us men don't look beyond your bodies which is a loss on our part.

It is very much possible. If you click with a lady and you find you got lots in common, you are all adults, nothing is stopping you from becoming friends

Im still friends with my "retired" regulars. We chat almost daily on whatsup and i see them whenever they r around.
Gorgeous girls, gorgeous sex and great people.

On 2020-06-15 15:26:07 Crystal prince said:
I've read so many stories on the platform about girls duping guys and how the girls have to act all nice and pretend to like us but in reality they aren't and never will be our friends.

This is the bit that makes it so difficult, I'd imagine on both sides of the equation.

The earlier thread about liking a saleswoman at a car dealership isn't a bad example.

As long as there is a potential business transaction in the works, there will always be some doubts in my opinion.

Maybe the answer is that, only once you are 100% out of the market for a new car, can a 'normal' friendship develop.

I find that there are too many variables in this situation. I have 3 I can point out but I'll explain that later on, on this thread. Just to give you another perspective on whether you find your interest to be something you'd like to pursue or not. Just to highlight something of light and interesting banter.

I found my best guy in the industry:) x3 of them

Yeah it's very possible and personally I have made some un-exchangeably good friends but just be sure that you both clear about the boundaries between the friendship and the business and boom life goes on

Yes its possible (in my case), some gents are a bit shy, and sometimes first contact grows into a good friendship and trust, before we have the first session, and that makes the session as well as follow up sessions so much better and authentic, because the chemistry is real. We make eachother feel great.

The way I see it, I do my best to help others, whether it's sexually, exploration, emotionally, mentally or of they just want someone to talk to. It makes me happy to see others happy and grow. I care about others.

I think some click easily with me because I understand how a man thinks, the same can be said with some of my WG's/MG's friends.

I don't really have "vanilla" friends.

In my years of doing what I do...ive notice I cant make friends with clients that where regulars.
The thing is. In the back of my mind I will always think back of our little visits. (Our transactions).
Unfortunately in my life I move on.
I will always think he wants more over time and I honestly don't sleep with my friends.
And if or when im out of this industry I wouldn't wanna be reminded of my past. Thats just me.
We all move on.

They are my clients and I absolutely adore them... BUT that's what they are... "clients"... nothing more...

I had one client that became a friend "with benefits"... he got what he wanted from me but he was never willing to help me out when I needed him. It was all about him and his needs... never again.