This topic has probably been done before but I would like some fresh answers.

In my short time punting, I've met some girls who I really would love to hang out and spend some time with.

And no, not in the sense of friends with benefits but legitimate friends.

I'm not married nor am I in a relationship so there's no real issue in that regard for me tbh.

So how do I approach this as a punter? I don't want free sex but ofc a WG won't know that or trust that and I don't blame them.

Become a regular first that's the first step

On 2020-09-25 06:38:28 Tinashy said:
Become a regular first that's the first step

true!!!!
We don't just let anybody in unless they've paid their dues.

Give her all your income, that's the second step

My advice is not to do it. Keep the punting world and your social world separate. My second bit of advice is don't be naive.

On 2020-09-25 07:26:31 Cassanata said:
My advice is not to do it. Keep the punting world and your social world separate. My second bit of advice is don't be naive.

Very true. Just do what you came here to do.


It will end in tears

Not a good idea... if you want friends, why a WG? Why not dating sites, FB or other places...
I lost great clients because they wanted a friendship and more and I wasn't willing to offer it.
Well that's only my opinion...

On 2020-09-25 06:33:40 The Huntsman said:
This topic has probably been done before but I would like some fresh answers.

In my short time punting, I've met some girls who I really would love to hang out and spend some time with.

And no, not in the sense of friends with benefits but legitimate friends.

I'm not married nor am I in a relationship so there's no real issue in that regard for me tbh.

So how do I approach this as a punter? I don't want free sex but ofc a WG won't know that or trust that and I don't blame them.

You're not going to be making friends with girls as you are imagining in your mind , what you will be causing is emotional distress which will lead to financial unwanted obligation which eventually will lead to you becoming as the rest who has walked the path before you !!

Don't get involved with SP's they are not looking for friends they are making a living and you are that living !

2 years and we should see threads from you with a whole different perspective , you're not the lion but the lamb in this realm.

When the old answers suffice there is no need to give fresh answers, learn how the search function works and get educated

Honestly, I'm not saying it's impossible, but I don't see how you can be friends with someone, hang out, have them in your social life etc, then pay them for sex. Also, most likely you will fall for them. Then upset their life and business, because you won't be able to handle your emotions.