Hi everyone, what is the right way of not wanting to go through with a punt. For me personally, i have to like the persons face, in ordsr to want to do the deed. But, what if i pitch up and i do not like what i see?

How does one not go through with it? What is the most respectful way to "cancel"?

I am not posting this to offend anyone, just need some advice. Thanks.

Just say you forgot your wallet in the car and drive off.

LOL

(Just kidding...maybe)

Pay a cancellation fee for wasting the lady's time!

She could have seen someone else for her full fee..

Fortunately only happened to me twice
First time I stayed and went for a quick hand job. I couldn't even get myself to touch her. Out of there in record time.
The second time I paid her 25% cancellation fee mumbling something about how my boss had suddenly called me back to work but I didn't want to leave her out of pocket.

I've had this happen a few times, not necessarily that the sp was ugly, in some cases the sp had a perfect face and body but I just didn't click and I knew I wouldn't get turned on so I proceed with the booking and just ask for a massage and chat a bit and leave.

On one occasion where the sp didn't look anything like the pics, I made an excuse that I was short on cash and needed to go to an atm and I never returned, lol.

What Cassanata said men like to say that =D

... I also think it depends on wether the girl's ad is misleading or not.. I've overheard angry clients literally tell the girl why they were leaving and they'd offer a cancellation fee. I'm not saying this is what should always be the case, but I think that was code for "I came here with good intentions, but you screwed me over"

I wouldn't want a client to sit through a booking if they weren't happy with how I look(for my dignity- I don't like being pitied).

A week ago a guy walked in and 5 minutes later he goes "how old are you???" I'm like "what does my ad say??" He goes "23y.o" I'm like "nope, nope... it doesn't say that I'm 27, if you came here looking for a 23y.o that's not going to work". I politely requested for him to leave but he wouldn't. I did stall on the booking because I thought maybe he'd leave eventually. Good thing is, we managed to cool the fire and the session unfolded naturally in the end.

I'm thinking if the client is disappointed from the beginning, they're not going to be nice to me which won't work for me because I don't kiss ass. Things may be awkward when one chooses to walk out, but not as awkward as how the session would pan out if somebody is not happy/comfortable.

On 2020-10-04 10:02:15 Cassanata said:


On one occasion where the sp didn't look anything like the pics, I made an excuse that I was short on cash and needed to go to an atm and I never returned, lol.

Pls do not insult our intelligence. We can handle a 'Thanks but you are not what I expected'

On 2020-10-04 09:28:09 Stiffman said:


How does one not go through with it? What is the most respectful way to "cancel"?

Offer a cancellation fee and leave. More likely than not, the lady would have picked up on the vibe as well and would appreciate your honesty and a cancellation donation even if she hasnt asked for or expected it.

This is a very good question...

Okay... I'm not a punter, but if I was...

I'd give her R300 for wasting her time, saying sorry but it's not going to work for me... BE NICE, SMILE, RETREAT, EXIT AND MOVE ALONG ... that's the right thing to do...

For me:...

Please rather be straight forward with me... give me my R300 and MOVE ALONG... NO HARD FEELINGS... We are human and cannot make everyone happy...

Well... it turned out that I'm NOT a punter... but the lady... :)))

I really DON'T wanna waste your energy, time and money... I DON'T use and abuse people, for my own benefit... I know the feeling... so yes, best if you are straight forward with me, give me my R300 and move along... NO HARD FEELINGS...

I for one... when I see you walking towards me and my womanhood screams... "NO FUCK NO" and I know the session will turn into a DISASTER... I will rather tell you to leave without any cancellation fee... so yes... it goes both ways...

I always say... No review is better than a bad review... :)))

When a lady shows her body and face in the pics, one can agree to the cancellation fee.

However, when they don't show the face and hide some of their body area like tummy etc, then I would not agree to a cancellation fee. Some profiles just have very misleading pics.