Posted: 2021-05-06 13:58:32
@Kelsey. .. I am very happy that you got helped and have found a place...
I do want to apologize on my behalf and all those that did not help...
It is not because we are mean but because we are afraid of how ladies will conduct themselves and how that might affect our own stay at spaces in the future. Nowadays you can't even trust those you call friends never mind strangers.
Currently where I am working from there was no ladies until day before yesterday.. two sets of two girls booked in yesterday.
The space don't really cater to wgs. They are strict about noise ect. I have managed to work here very discreetly for a couple of months now. No troubles no issues.
The one set of ladies is quiet well mannered and conduct themselves in a manner that you would never suspect they are working ladies.
The other set though...had friends or is it clients heaven knows.. Started a noisy party in braai area yesterday morning already. Walking around in dresses so short and revealing it is quiet obvious that they ain't just girls on holiday and using swear words like syrup over toast. Discussing business so loud I can hear them although I am way down the hall from braai area. This is a place where there was two normal couples with children also booked in yesterday.( Because of that racket I only saw one client yesterday I have asked the rest to reschedule... Then they went quiet and I thought ok can do short notice appointments only for then to start up the racket again 20 minutes later, I gave up for the day... I don't want clients to think that is the way the place always sound like)
Last night at 11:30 they started fighting heaven knows over what...swearing,screaming.. that F word was used in all forms and manners while slamming doors, knocking in doors, waking up the whole damn guesthouse.
This behaviour by some ladies is the one and only reason why most ladies do not want to help others anymore.
I use to go around giving out info and helping all the time .. I just don't anymore.
I think ladies should take the responsibility to search for themselves to find a perfect spot do proper research on areas you want to travel to before going there.
And those that do get helped by others that was kind enough to want to help, should take care to behave in a respectable manner towards the place themselves and those that did help them.