These girls are expert "sales persons" and if she has to sell you the dream that she is in love with you to keep you retuning as a regular that is what she will do, and as long as you are naive enoughcto believe her she will milk your wallet.

Run Forest Run

As fast as you can

Do not pas begin. Do not collect R 200-00. Run straight to jail. Go and hide there.

On 2017-04-18 09:11:14 Mxxx said:


My wife remains my best buddy and friend. We click like no other.

So many of us are looking for that...

If things are not working out in your marriage, and you have REALLY tried to make it work, then fine- look at other options,

DON'T FUCK IT UP !

Advice based on experience -.You are probably not the only punter attached to this chick.

Chances are that there are others who feel same way about her and she feels same about them the way you think she feels about you.

Most ladies if not all are in this in this industry to sustain their livelihoods not relationships. They do relationships out of the industry.

Keep it professional otherwise you just gonna fuck up your life especially because you married.

Being down this road several times. Chances are that the relationship will amount to nothing unless you are only after freebies.

Lastly,exrcecise responsibility,don't allow punting to mess up your life. If you can't afford it don't do it.

Good luck.

I agree with Wors13, these ladies are wonderful sales people and actresses.
I thought I had a 'relationship' with a very well known and respected lady on this site - over 5 years. but more fool me. I was not exactly in love but I did fall into the trap of thinking our time together was special / different.
but for goodness sake just read the reviews from ALL her other 'special' clients!!

There's a very thin line between falling in love and need.
Some don't need love they need your help.
What's the motive behind everything?
Please don't tell me there's none!
If you go into something like this, be open minded!
Make sure everything you willing to give up is worth the pain and effort of years of work and suffering.
Will you give up a comfortable lifestyle and going after your needs?
Hmm no I really don't think so.
In the proses...you met her in this industry (didn't think MG offers FH sorry)... And YOUR the punter.
Is there any trust?
What has this girl got to work on except your word(if that counts today) ... did you promise to leave the wife?
If not... let her work on a future, she's building a life... with Or without you.
Don't give false hope when your intentions isn't pure!

On 2017-04-18 14:15:38 Meg said:
There's a very thin line between falling in love and need.
Some don't need love they need your help.
What's the motive behind everything?
Please don't tell me there's none!
If you go into something like this, be open minded!
Make sure everything you willing to give up is worth the pain and effort of years of work and suffering.
Will you give up a comfortable lifestyle and going after your needs?
Hmm no I really don't think so.
In the proses...you met her in this industry (didn't think MG offers FH sorry)... And YOUR the punter.
Is there any trust?
What has this girl got to work on except your word(if that counts today) ... did you promise to leave the wife?
If not... let her work on a future, she's building a life... with Or without you.
Don't give false hope when your intentions isn't pure!

Well said Meg....I second that!

@mervhughes
I wish you all the best.
However, I always draw a line between a wg and love.

Thank you my lady, it's just the truth.
We also feel and get hurt and are uncertain about our future and all the BS men tells us... that sometimes we don't know the truth from the lie.
If you fall inlove make it count... because one day...you don't want to turn back and say... I had her/ him but I let them go because I wasn't sure.
No good relationship can be built on a a unstable foundation .

For all that it is worth:

This is not the place to look for sound advise. Not from your brother punter or from the SP. Everybody has a story, and for most part you will hear bad things about the girls , yet the punters come back. That been said this is not the place to find love either, it will only end up in rip roaring fights and insults in the end that damages both parties.first fight that breaks out you will call her a Wh..re.

That takes away from her humanity and degrades her, never mind what that will make you, because you new who she was, and how you found her.

Punters forget this is what we do for a living it is not who we are. The state of the economy has put many a South African out of work and women are now heading up households having to come into the industry to keep their families fed and housed.

Anyone who is deluded enough to think anything good can come from a relationship founded in this industry should go seek professional help. Everyone on this site comes with a load full of baggage, not a good foundation for a relationship.

For every Punter that has a bad story about a SP, please keep in mind we have 2.

Yes these girls are excellent sales skills, put the shoe on the other foot, if you are destitute what extremes would you go to to support those very same families you now say don't destroy because of a SP.

This is a mutually beneficial relationship,and should stay as such, anything else is a lie, think on both sides the circumstances you are meeting under.

Not advise just reality.