Alison you just got me soo excited with your words. Sheesh now I really want to try this out.

On 2020-07-30 10:58:49 Skomhc said:
On 2020-07-30 10:26:16 Alison Diamond said: Each lady is different...

1: most ladies love

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7: gents and ladies doing the giving be open for being taught how the lady likes it ...


My compliments Alison, you by FAR give the best advice here!!!
Your knowledge also makes you bisexual, very clearly so - good on you! ;-)

For those still learning how to enjoy themselves, here's Alison's golden nugget again:
"Show them how you like it and you will enjoy yourself and so will the giver."

@ Skomhc thank you angel. I speak from experience in giving and receiving. You right angel however I'm not bisexual, I am pansexual.
Also my years of experience as dominatrix and in the BDSM world has allowed me to explore myself and others and I enjoy giving pleasure and receiving.

Why should I keep all this knowledge I've gained to myself when people are asking ... Sharing is caring I say. I saw the thread and saw it was an honest to goodness request and search for knowledge so I shared a little experience and if it helps others then so much better...have an awesome day purple world.

On 2020-07-30 15:38:58 WillGrey said:
Alison you just got me soo excited with your words. Sheesh now I really want to try this out.

Go ahead angel. With open communication, starting softly and watching body language it should be awesome.

On 2020-07-30 10:26:16 Alison Diamond said:
Each lady is different. The kitten can be pleasured in various ways. Here are a few tips for the gents and ladies

1: most ladies love being teased around the kitten area the buildup with teasing adds alot to the end result.
Please keep touch light in beginning ( some ladies are sensitive and some are not) using fingers and tongue trace the folds along the v that is the outer edge of the kitten. The outer lips are also a good tease especially along the edge as your breath will tickle the clit and inner lips as well heightening the buildup. Try to tease coming close without really touching. If done right you will find the lady will subconsciously move so that you are playing where she likes it most.
2: by this time she should have moisture made and waiting for you to use if you haven't used lube to begin with when using fingers. Trace the inner lips and rake your tongue across the clit. Start softly as the lady will inadvertantly lift and push with kitten if she wants more pressure. Her body will always tell you at what level of pressure she enjoys subconciously.
3: a little secret that is not well known. The clit has a small hood and if slight pressure is applied to the sides of the clit the hood pops back and the clit nodule proper is exposed. When exposed please be careful as different ladies have different sensitivity levels and it can be very pleasing to the lady if the nodule is stroked by the tongue.
4: as pleasure increases her body will react and here is the main thing if you are using your tongue with some strong pressure on the nodule and the lady is pushing her kitten into your face you can try suckling the clit. Be careful and start softly by just drawing it in. After a while you can test and see if she likes it sucked a bit harder( depending on the lady) if you get to the point where you are sucking hard and she is still enjoying herself you can try a little nibble like softly taking your teeth across the nodule( not every lady likes that and alot find it painful however there are a few ladies out there that would love it)
4: the biggest bit of advice I can give you is to start very softly like feather soft and experiment till you find what the lady likes)
5: the tip I can give the ladies is don't be shy when I guy or lady asks you what you like. Show them how you like it and you will enjoy yourself and so will the giver.
6: lastly happy orgasms angels.
7: gents and ladies doing the giving be open for being taught how the lady likes it you will find yourself enjoying everything more, the both of you will definitely find this enjoyable as long as both are communicating and open about this.

Have an awesome day further.

Awesome. Awesome. Awesome.

On 2020-07-30 08:40:35 Rehu said:
On 2020-07-29 22:28:07 Kimmylee said: Kiss her madly, passionately rolling both your tongues while your cock is teasing her pussy lips, kindly knocking on her entrance and your finger(s) gently playing with the clit.

To be continued....


Asseblief man,its the next day now,puhLEEZE continue...

Do you have:

Big lips, a long soft tongue and lots of saliva?

Medium semi hard lips that grab first before the tongue, a sharp pointed tongue with not so much saliva?

Small lips, short and round shaped tongue, semi dry mouth?

Or other.....?


Long, thick or slender fingers?

Medium sized length, big or small fingers?

Short, big or medium fingers?

Or other.....?


These are the Tools in my play box, I look at to determine whether a guy has got the right Bolt for my Nut. Screw me later!!! (Pun pun pun)

Too be continued....


PS: You can respond immediately after you donate to charity. It's for a good cause...;)

This was a thread for the ages. Every man should strive to be a good Cunnilingiust (not a word I just made it up).

On 2022-04-05 10:40:57 OneNightOnlyTwo said:
This was a thread for the ages. Every man should strive to be a good Cunnilingiust (not a word I just made it up).

You Sir are a Cunning Linguist

Best way? Come on over...let me show you...
*Wink-wink*

I don't wish to brag but I am a pretty good cunning linguist :)

Jake

On 2020-07-29 18:33:27 Kooni said:
Your biggest mistake will be to try the same tactics on all the ladies. They are individualsand all different in how the like it.

She will tell you exactly how and what to if you read her body language.

And never be to "mucho" to ask, the lady what she enjoy.

Good advice, was about to post this as well.
From experience it's NOT the same technique for every female out there.
The best is to ask the lady you are with, how she likes it.