On 2020-10-04 11:25:17 Ms Paige said:


I for one... when I see you walking towards me and my womanhood screams... "NO FUCK NO" and I know the session will turn into a DISASTER... I will rather tell you to leave without any cancellation fee... so yes... it goes both ways...

I always say... No review is better than a bad review... :)))

And why don't you give the poor man R 300 for wasting his time and petrol ?

The respectful thing to do is make up an excuse, "Emergency at work" and pay a cancellation fee.

This way she at least gets something for booking you a slot she won't be fully compensated for, and she doesn't take a knock of confidence because of your personal preference.

As the say, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ".

Probably because I am only an occasional punter (and newish to this world), and for the fact that my first lady visited duped me of my cash (put it down to school fees), I have not had the need to turn away.
I agree if we choose not to proceed, we have wasted the SPs time and a potential other client. But false advertising is also a waste of our time and in that case why should we pay a cancellation fee.
Thats where I enjoy the forum (and reviews) as you get an idea of the ladies before visiting from their comments and responses. You often then get a sense that you may click.
And thats also why Ms P is on my list (for when I am able to travel north again). You know exactly what to expect and i find that intoxicating.

I've also found sometimes when cash changes hands up front, so does the niceness and attitude

Now I'm just thinking...if the SP uses wrong misleading photos or advertise services which she doesnt intend to deliver on...why must the punter be nice...isn't it the punter that has been taken for a fool as one exchange money for a promised service..just my two cents...

To me, a cancelation fee seems very fair to the lady (in return for her loosing out to another full paying client).

But does it also go the other way round? If an add is misleading, and the punter does not want to proceed, what about compensating his time and effort?

It happens.
I ask : you do have credit card facilities- don't you? - as I have no cash... it still remains awkward. Obesive ladies who hide their appearances by misleading pictures is my no no .

On 2020-10-04 10:53:08 Bbw Nadia said:
On 2020-10-04 10:02:15 Cassanata said:

On one occasion where the sp didn't look anything like the pics, I made an excuse that I was short on cash and needed to go to an atm and I never returned, lol.
Pls do not insult our intelligence. We can handle a 'Thanks but you are not what I expected'

Lmao, so the wg is deceptive and looks nothing like the pics and I am the one at fault? Okay...

Let me tell you bbw tannie, it's the WGs who are deceptive with their advertising who are insulting our intelligence. If I am insulting their intelligence by making up an excuse to leave because they look nothing like their pics then so be it. They should just be thankful I didn't throw a tantrum outside the door for them wasting my time. You expect me to pay a cancellation fee? You have to be tripping.

If its not your type and you want to leave do what I do.

I say my stomach is upset all of a sudden and pay the cancelation fee and leave.

I agree with Bbw Nadia. I'm certainly not offended if someone arrives and say "not my cup of tea" Certainly not offended and dont take it personally. I don't even ask for a cancelation fee. I'd rather the gent be happy and wants to proceed with the booking.