Some years ago his wife caught him chatting with a lady via text messages, but there was no real evidence of an affair and she forgave him.
When you see him and his wife together it really seems like he loves her a lot. He treats her well, does special things for her on special occasions and such.
Late last year he caught his wife having an affair with one of her co-workers.
This man is completely and utterly devastated. And he is now busy divorcing her. I've never seen him like this. He used to be the life of the party, but he has fallen into deep depression.
His soon-to-be ex-wife immediately put a stop to her affair and she wants to fight for their marriage, but he doesn't want to budge.
I have spoken to him. He says he loves her very much, but he says he'll never be able to forgive her or forget her betrayal. When I point out that he's done the same he ignores the question.
How would the married punters here react/feel if your wife cheated on you? We are all strangers, so be honest.
I catch her flirting with a man from her past. We talk it out. But if I catch het caught her to have an affair. I will leave her. She will do the same.
On 2020-01-27 15:22:57 Blades said:
I have a mate whose been married for almost 20 years. He's a serial cheater. I know of at least 3 affairs that he's had in the past and I know that he punts as well.
Some years ago his wife caught him chatting with a lady via text messages, but there was no real evidence of an affair and she forgave him.
When you see him and his wife together it really seems like he loves her a lot. He treats her well, does special things for her on special occasions and such.
Late last year he caught his wife having an affair with one of her co-workers.
This man is completely and utterly devastated. And he is now busy divorcing her. I've never seen him like this. He used to be the life of the party, but he has fallen into deep depression.
His soon-to-be ex-wife immediately put a stop to her affair and she wants to fight for their marriage, but he doesn't want to budge.
I have spoken to him. He says he loves her very much, but he says he'll never be able to forgive her or forget her betrayal. When I point out that he's done the same he ignores the question.
How would the married punters here react/feel if your wife cheated on you? We are all strangers, so be honest.
There is love then there is sex, if you can differentiate between the two,you are good to go. If you can't, don't punt
Just some slush...been married for 30 years...know my wife for 36 years...I have always been a punter...guess I am an addict for variety...I only punt and avoid affairs...and avoid getting personal with the SP...cos this can cause issues if you get caught in chats etc.
Just curious to find out from other punters...after many years of marriage ...does the wife become just 'the mother of my children' cos I feel this way now...sex is no longer on the to do list...not a priority...as much as I have tried date nights...flowers...weekend away...etc...I know I am at fault for not trying hard enough, I guess.
On 2020-01-27 15:51:03 Tegwane said:
There is love then there is sex, if you can differentiate between the two,you are good to go. If you can't, don't punt
I think this is a thing many people who've been cheated on struggle with. Was it love or was it just sex? Punting is one thing, but an affair is a completely different animal.
Edited: 2020-01-27 16:11:51
On 2020-01-27 15:59:46 911 said:
Swinging together with other couples may be the answer
In my mates case, seeing and hearing of his reaction on his wife's affair and how he feels about his wife, I very much doubt that this would have been an option for him.
It may work for other couples.
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