It happens that you get involved without planing it sometimes start by having a good time and enjoying each other's company,going out nextStep,wel me I can't help it if u are so good and respecting anol I'm happy ,the touch of a sars feeling,,it happen wen u give al And he s happy,question is married or not would get involved with a client

Your post was not easy to read as there seem to be key words missing, but I will take a stab at your question. In general, I think a relationship with a client has a low probabity of success, especially if you are still working and he is still booking. Furthermore, even if you do quit there is the possibility that he can't quit. So, beyond the initial feelings of enjoying each other's company for perhaps a couple of hours every few days, in the long run can you see a situation where you are staying in the same house and you trust each other completely?

The next hurdle is "what is your current status?" If he is married, a divorce is a long and emotional process, especially if kids are involved. How will he introduce you to his family and friends? (ie. How will he explain where you met and what you do for a living?) Do you have kids of your own? Do you have baby daddy drama? Similarly, does he come with baby mama drama?

My personal opinion. Never get involved with a punter. (And visa versa) There's very little success stories to prove otherwise.

Keep your services professional, don't overstep boundaries, but keep it real.

I have punter friends who are very dear to me, but we never encroach on each other's private lives and they know where they stand.

XOXOXO

It's a good question. ..??
Now we shouldn't generalise.
There's not much to work on...
Remember and always keep in mind where you met.
Another honest opinion. .
If his married. ..don't go there girl..they hardly leave there stability and security for Us.
Just find out if his INTO you..or just a nice free ride.
They play the game till you have no more to give..then they move on to the next victim.
Just my 2c worth.

Midnight, take note. Supermanv and Miss Ruby gave very good insight. I dunno how long you've been in this business. I offer a much more negative but also realistic check on things, IMO. When I started I also believed every client who said he was falling in live with me. None actually really were in love with me. They were in love with the WG, 'sexified' me. They weren't interested in Nadia, the woman. Likewise I also fell in love with punters. Fortunately I never gave in to the urge to declare my undying love to them. I would've lost several regulars if I had done that. Also as I got to know them I realised if he gets bored with his wife/_gf, how long before he's bored with me. And if he's in love with sexified Nadia, is that gonna be able to carry the relationship forward? If this is from your side only, enjoy fantasizing about what might have been. Often the fantasy in one's head is way more exciting than reality could ever be. Revealing it to the guy will send him running for the hills.

@Nadia.. well said sexy woman

The "sexified" persona will only last so long.. then reality hits and promises can't be fulfilled by both parties.

Midnight you seem to be head over hills in love with this person...
Be careful darling, or it will impact on your business..

Meg and Nadia (incl myself)have been here for many years and know what we're talking about.

Protect your feelings and try to keep your emotions in check young lady.

Big hug
XOXOXO

My world revolves around the industry and relationships with punters have fucked with my head. One recently wanted to reconcile, then declared he loved me then disappeared. My relationships have never been so screwed up!

Outside the industry guys have no idea how to handle what we do and regardless of how much the might like me, they just end up trying to get leg over and dumping me.

Relationships are hard under any circumstances. I just resent being used and hurt by clients with regards to my heart but it doesn't stop me from hoping and taking chances whether in or out the industry!

Midnight you seem to be in a dilemma here. Yes taking note would be a very good idea from these wonderful ladies with lots of experience in this industry. Not forgetting our Superman V gent here.

Yet again do you choose to follow your heart? Do you again turn a blind eye? Do you take risks? Darling all I can say to is that your SO will come in a different form, shape or size. You choose a path that will determine your outcome. We have heard it all!


Choose wisely! Test the spirit and you will know if it is a good spirit or not.


Thank you ladies, Meg, Miss Ruby, Veronica Franco and Bbw Nadia.

By the way Miss Bbw, good to see you. I haven't heard from you in a long time. Maybe thats just me being the quiet one and all.... Lol


Have a good day ladies

It is possible bond with someone in this field because we are all humans and we engage in a very personal space, and therefore I can understand why WG's have their regular's. But I doubt a relationship would last. I know only of one and that only lasted a few years; but perhaps one of those success stories is out there somewhere.

I've been the agony aunt to several WGs over the years and every time I hear this story I know what will follow.
I share your sentiments Veronica. After all the heartbreaks, when a Darling of a guy told me he loved me, I let him slip through my fingers cos I'd been hurt and lied to
more times than I care to remember.