Ladies and gentlemen of the purple world. I humbly greet you all.


Just like most of us here who are trying to make ends meet, we need solutions. And please don't get me wrong, ignore this post if need be but the fact still remains, we need solutions. Price reduction or inflation on rates doesn't seem to work even when discussed it all ends nowhere, one thing becomes good then entangled along the way,seeing the topics that keep coming up of Wgs/Mgs this and that! Specials this and that! Roar policy this and that! The list is endless with some debates that find no solutions just complaints and degradation. This is not for the faint hearted, we do have some little tricks up our sleeves I'm sure. Some leave, others take a break,others wait till the good gets going abandoning the ship as one escaping from the flames then they want to come back and to take over from those who steered the rudder to the shore. My old time favourite, others don't even know what they are in this industry for. Because the so called "bad" is overclouding the best of our abilities, no no no and no!

To move on or accept these tough times we need to tackle the root of the cause. For example and I mean no disrespect:

1. When you get more than one call from a client in one day. Potential or regular, try to stay on your toes and respond efficiently. Yes you're not desperate but you're being responsive. Know when to answer the phone, not when you're on top of your client....*facepalm*

2. Don't let one bad situation ruin your day. When you think that all has gone to waist, a timely call may just make it worthwhile. So be proactive.

3. What is boasting really if you have nothing to show for it? It never is good at all even in this industry. When someone who is not poshly dressed or in rags comes into your place of work, one then sizes them and doesn't provide the same service and treatment as the one who's opulent lifestyle screams riches. Are not most of the ones who are even telling you today that you should lower your rates the same ones you treated with royalty? Though we may know certain things and be intelligent about it I suggest we become fools or kindergarten toddlers. They don't worry about such things as long mommy or daddy will provide.

Yes I am no judge at all but I'm saying this to shame some of you who don't want to take a step. I'm not sugarcoating anything as this is a concession. Come on guys we need solutions!

Yes we all have preferences but a slight change or tweak to some in these financial constraints. We need solutions and it begins with each and every one of us.

I personally can only count up to my 10 of my fingers the people that came up with great ideas on this forum to assist each and every person in these tough times. But then again money motivates even the laziest of them buggers.


So Purple World what solutions can we bring to the table. Any more ideas?

I am one of those that hasn't been here long, so a solution might not come from me.

I just wanted to say you go girl.
You have bigger balls( figuratively of course)
Than most of us.
Respect to you kimmylee!

Kimmylee .. great post !!!

Solutions must definitely be found between the ladies and punters to keep punting sustainable !!!

My suggestion for the ladies is to built up a regular basis and make sure they coming back for more visits !!!

Exactly how to do that is all the ladies provocative but if i was a mg or wg I would have done the following:

Make sure that each visit is 100% to the satisfaction of the client !!!

Make sure that he feels like the only guy on the planet !!!

Reward him with some extra time .. nobody is really that busy not to do this !!!

Give him something exstra attention that he normally would not get somewhere else !!!

Not really nessesary to drop your rates ... just boost our ego's and the world is your oyster !!!

Wow Kimmylee... what a great post...
For the ladies:
1. Always look sophisticated and neat... dress sexy but keep it classy, not cheap...
2. Wear makeup... even if it's only a lipstick or eyeliner
3. If you had miss calls... DON'T ignore them... message back...
4. Smell nice...
5. Make sure you give an excellent service so that you can build up a regular base...
6. Most important: DON'T forget to smile... it cost you nothing

To the punters:
1.If a girl is to expensive for your liking, move on. Don't ask her for a special rate... if she run a special she would have mentioned it... Every girl know what she's worth... If you really want her then I suggest you call a friend:)))
2. Pitch up or cancel in time so that the lady don't waste a booking on a no show...

@ Preggy Misty.....thank you for the compliment my dear. It shows that you are consciously made aware and therefore will do the best of your ability. New or old we are in this together. You will plan, execute and see the results.

@ BOOBS...You Sir are one of the many who came with such suggestions to accommodate both the punters and the ladies on the giving and receiving ends. Offering various services. I congratulate you in being proactive to provide help by using your time and making the effort to contribute in person and away.

Solutions are there but we crack our heads too much because we follow this one and that one when we are all on the same boat just different tasks which make us unique. I take my hat off for you. Thank you!

On 2018-06-09 11:05:46 BOOBS53 said:
Kimmylee .. great post !!!

Solutions must definitely be found between the ladies and punters to keep punting sustainable !!!

My suggestion for the ladies is to built up a regular basis and make sure they coming back for more visits !!!

Exactly how to do that is all the ladies provocative but if i was a mg or wg I would have done the following:

Make sure that each visit is 100% to the satisfaction of the client !!!

Make sure that he feels like the only guy on the planet !!!

Reward him with some extra time .. nobody is really that busy not to do this !!!

Give him something exstra attention that he normally would not get somewhere else !!!

Not really nessesary to drop your rates ... just boost our ego's and the world is your oyster !!!

You are so correct, love reading your posts and you are always spot on....

@ Ms Paige....you have covered the basics and it takes a lot my lady. A little effort put into your work and ethically carrying it out will reap benefits and rewards. Well done!

@ Mis Bbw.....thank you my dear that means a lot coming from you. A change in attitude towards what puts food in the table will turn the whole table into a storage room full of saved goods for a rainy day.

One other suggestion would be that when there's enough extra funds or turnover. Make use of buying in bulk. Things like shower gels, wipes, condoms, deodorants etc. Those most used essentials, fill up half of the bottle when it is empty!

Food for the stomach and stomach for the food! Show for it, save, cut on unnecessary things you don't need so you have some left for yourself.

Interesting post.

In business, your best and most profitable customers are existing customers. A typical growth/retention strategy is (a) get them to buy more volumes (repeat visits) or (b) get them to buy new things from you (bundled services).

Acquiring new customers is expensive (think of the awkwardness of serving 4 strangers in one day (unless strangeness is your thing)).

A few thoughts on (a) knowing your customers:
1. Most are creatures of habit e.g. Sunday afternoons. Know the routine, agree comms protocol (if appropriate). My dry cleaner calls every 2nd Thursday, reminds me to come on Saturday. I'm more inclined to tip my regular barber than a new one.
2. If I'm visiting you and it's my birthday month have a bar of chocolate or a bottle of wine ready.
3. Create networks. For example, GP's refer their patients to specific specialists, they don't leave you to choose a surgeon randomly. What new experiences do your regulars want? Refer them to a friend. If I'm going to the coast for a weekend, set me up with a friend.
4. Pricing in any industry is part art and part science. Consider flat rates and avoid the awkwardness of a guy who booked 1/2 hour and is still on round 1 after 40 minutes. Or booked an hour but is done and dusted with his 2 rounds after 20 minutes.

A few thoughts on (b) find things your regulars already do and add to the menu e.g.:
1. It's world-cup season and sometimes all I want is hot date to the pub
2. How about facials / pedicures topped off with an orgasm
3. How about I bring my laundry /ironing, get it done and get laid
4. How about homemade dinner before sex.

All on assumption the lady in question is well presented, mannered, articulate and conducts herself with decorum.

In service industries, the provider who best understands the customers and provides a personalised service wins. It's why Discovery is wiping the floor with Sanlam.

Thanks Kimmylee and Mia .. I really feel honoured !!!

And another one of my favourites. Use the Randela notes and save the loose change into a tin a pot or a second purse. An old common practice. They do come in handy for that loaf of bread and milk.

By the time I check into that tin a month I would of saved over R200 or more which can pay up one of my ads well.

Try it it always works