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Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 12:28:09
I have sleepless nights... was searching for a tatoo pic when I opened a unwanted link by mistake... I know a lot about the bdsm world but this made me cry. Why would a woman put herself through such pain and torture? Why does she let her sadist master do this to her? I know about that incredible bond that a master and slave share with each other... but this is UNHUMAN!!!! What went wrong in her life that she think it's okay to let him do this to her? Why... Why? Does anyone have answers?
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 12:31:54
Because it hurts sooooooo goooooooooooood!!stop it i like !!
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 12:32:56
I agree. I've seen some videos that almost made my heart stop.
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 12:41:51
The intensity of masochistic desire is directely related to the intesity of desire to be accepted.
To try and explain...
For some people having to keep the front of being perfect/smart ect has become a unbearable burden because people around them just assume they are the smart/strong ones..
These people beat themselves up for the tiniest mistake.
When forced into a chaotic state ...a state of having no control relaxes them but to get to that state / to mentally let go is really hard for some and more intense play is needed.
To try and explain...
For some people having to keep the front of being perfect/smart ect has become a unbearable burden because people around them just assume they are the smart/strong ones..
These people beat themselves up for the tiniest mistake.
When forced into a chaotic state ...a state of having no control relaxes them but to get to that state / to mentally let go is really hard for some and more intense play is needed.
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 12:43:56
Edited: 2017-09-18 12:45:32
Edited: 2017-09-18 12:45:32
Malikah... no... this is beyond human... this isn't sexual pain... I've never seen extreme torture like this in my life... I'm sick to my stomach
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 12:44:06
You hit the nail on the head Sage.
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 14:43:38
Thank you Sage...
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 16:33:22
You are welcome Paige it"s complicated concepts to explain.
Often very controling personality types are drawn to sub/bottom type role play.
People with much responsibility.
There's different intensities and all sort of factors that makes each experience unique.
It is important to understand that what you see should always be by the consent of the "victim"
The "tormentor" actually secretly does everything for the benefit of the bottom.
Often very controling personality types are drawn to sub/bottom type role play.
People with much responsibility.
There's different intensities and all sort of factors that makes each experience unique.
It is important to understand that what you see should always be by the consent of the "victim"
The "tormentor" actually secretly does everything for the benefit of the bottom.
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 16:50:13
Never ever judge what consenting adults do. It is nine of your business.
When there is no consent then you have a right to judge. Close the website and move on
When there is no consent then you have a right to judge. Close the website and move on
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Re: Can someone please tell me Why?
Posted: 2017-09-18 16:50:14
Edited: 2017-09-18 16:50:31
Edited: 2017-09-18 16:50:31
Never ever judge what consenting adults do. It is none of your business.
When there is no consent then you have a right to judge. Close the website and move on
When there is no consent then you have a right to judge. Close the website and move on
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