I cannot believe I'm here a whole 6 weeks later and not been paid back like I had been promised.
For context, I paid a WG for a 30 minute session (my big mistake as I'm new to all of this and have learnt my lesson now). But the booking didn't happen as she told me about an hour before that she had to cancel because someone is renovating or something.

The issue is I could only do that day at that time because I have left the country for work and not sure when I will be back so I kindly requested a refund which didn't and still hasn't happened.

I've been nagging her constantly for almost 2 months now and she just ignores me, you would laugh if you were to see our conversation on Whatsapp with me trying to get a response from her. She has not been fair.

I didn't want to have to come here but 6 weeks is a joke after she promised she will refund me, she's had my banking details for nearly 2 months! 100s of texts to no responses from her. If I don't get my money then people at least need to be weary so let me have everyone's best interest at heart.

This is her:

www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

Ok, chalk it down to school fees. There is no such thing as pay upfront unless you are dealing with a legitimate business.

One thing I commend you on is instantly naming the skank that pulled this shit on you. Well done. Take note people, this is how it is done.

People, and by this I mean those fucks that don't name drop...if you get done in by someone, name and shame. If you come here and moan without dropping a name then you deserve to get taken for the poes you are.

On 2025-10-20 10:49:29 therodent said:
Ok, chalk it down to school fees. There is no such thing as pay upfront unless you are dealing with a legitimate business.

One thing I commend you on is instantly naming the skank that pulled this shit on you. Well done. Take note people, this is how it is done.

People, and by this I mean those fucks that don't name drop...if you get done in by someone, name and shame. If you come here and moan without dropping a name then you deserve to get taken for the poes you are.

I agree 100%

Never pay up front it's the first rule in the "Punters guide book".

Secondly read the forum , there was a thread about this particular SP a while back warning of this scam.

Spot on therodent.

Just last week, for an immediate booking (to see right now) the WG said she only does prepaid bookings. For right now.

Fuck off, you just lost a client that wanted to pay right now, cash.

You only here for a year.
Kudos for naming. By end of the week u will paid.
Good learning curve.

An expensive lesson learned. There will be more bud.

Read the forum and ask for advice and you could minimise the hit on your bank account.

I could've paid some kid's 1st year at varsity with the amount of lessons I've learned.

SP ghosting after Upfront Payment

Unfortunately, once payment is made, especially via untraceable methods, it becomes difficult to recover the money.

To protect yourself:

- Avoid paying in full before the meeting.
- Research SP's through the ESA review system, forums, and SP's advertisements to gauge comments & reviews made by other punters. Stick to SP's with a solid reputation.
- Be cautious of anyone pushing for upfront payment, crypto, gift cards, or unusually low rates.
- Stick to escort sites that use trusted platforms that allow for reviews and that also vet the SP's.
- Report all scammers to help warn punters - always.

Let's keep each other safe by sharing information and holding scammers accountable.

You should have done your research on that lady.

She has been known to do that. There have been previous comments confirming this.

This is what happens when you see chicks who fuck with Nigerian druggies. They will do anything to scam you. Be careful.

Well done for naming bro.....its obvious she didnt use the cash to renew her ad.

Keep an eye out for her new ad and then post it again. She will probably come back with new pics and name