Hello All

Hope you are doing well.

So I tend to be a little bit of a hopeless romantic.

I was wondering if a person can do bookings that may or may not lead to the deed.

As sometimes my needs are just to actually cuddle and be close to someone and not necessarily sex per say and do more romantic gestures without strings attached.

I sometimes experience this strong need to give hugs and kisses holding hands cuddling etc

What is your experience with this? and thoughts

Many thanks

Alot of guys especialy single guys needs that physical touch. When u book a girl u can lead. She will fall in with u especialy if gfe is on offer. And to be honest. U would be suprised of how many girls would rather want wat u want than the actual deed.
Alot of guys mentioned on the forum they want the girl to lead and take initiative . Its because they are as boring as shit lol. So no ur request is 100 percent legit

Not a strange request at all! I have been called a romantic fool many a time...it is what it is! :-))

Not strange at all, I also like it slow and sensual, and the connection that builds up to the deed

Nope, you all weird AF!

On 2025-09-24 12:38:42 anonymouspunter69 said:
Hello All

Hope you are doing well.

So I tend to be a little bit of a hopeless romantic.

I was wondering if a person can do bookings that may or may not lead to the deed.

As sometimes my needs are just to actually cuddle and be close to someone and not necessarily sex per say and do more romantic gestures without strings attached.

I sometimes experience this strong need to give hugs and kisses holding hands cuddling etc

What is your experience with this? and thoughts

Many thanks

Hello anonymouspunter69, thank you for sharing so openly. I can definitely appreciate the need for closeness, affection, and connection without it always being about sex. Bookings don't have to lead to intimacy if that's not what you're looking for in the moment cuddling, kissing, hand-holding, or just spending time together are all absolutely fine. The main thing is that we're both comfortable and clear about what you'd like from the experience, so it can feel natural and enjoyable for both of us.

Although I advertise under massage and my service is not one that revolves around socializing and chatting beforehand and then making ones way to the bed.

This i can say.

Connection for me is paramount. A sincerity in whatever we shall share. The build-up...even in a massage or kinky session.
Have my sessions known to lead to the bed where touch and play and just laying there happens? Most definitely yes.

Now in line with what you might enjoy. Maybe you might consider it?

My dinner dates are exactly about that . The share of company. The excitement of looking fwd to my 'date'.
The appreciation felt and acknowledgement of me as a 'date' too.
A touch , a peck, a lingering hug, a closeness neither contrite nor forced, the bliss of a 'date' with no strings attached.
Where does it lead?
Well. If to the bedroom, the sincerity in the intimacy, I mean INTIMACY is a guarantee.

I look fwd to hopefully receiving a call from you and any other gentleman keen on sharing a moment of intimacy unrushed and all about being romantically, erotically tactile in our time together.

RB.

Thank you all for the messages and responses glad to know I'm not crazy!

Also I am Cape Town Based

Hope you all are having a wonderful Thursday!