After every punt, while I'm in my car driving home I have this thought... What if would I have done if I arrived at the venue - the host escorted me to the room and the person opening the door is one of my young nieces or my extended families children?

Plenty of the girls around the ages of 20 - 24 are unemployed. So it is in the realm of possibilities.

Does anyone have this worry?

It happened to me.

And no I don't live in Springs.

On 2022-06-10 09:48:53 Yippy said:
It happened to me.

And no I don't live in Springs.

How did you cope? When you guys see one another at family gatherings is it an issue? Shoot, I'd probably move to another country.

On 2022-06-10 09:02:01 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
After every punt, while I'm in my car driving home I have this thought... What if would I have done if I arrived at the venue - the host escorted me to the room and the person opening the door is one of my young nieces or my extended families children?

Plenty of the girls around the ages of 20 - 24 are unemployed. So it is in the realm of possibilities.

Does anyone have this worry?

Shuuu! What a strong point , left my knees shevering indeed.
There is a truth in this. It's disturbing just just by thinking about it

No, but that would be interesting LOL

Then you both have a good laugh, you ask them if business is good and if they're doing well and you also make sure they're safe and taking all the necessary precautions.

You also check if they're doing this of their own free will and finally you ask whether they'd prefer this part of their lives be kept private.

Once that is done, you go on your way. Fact is, this isn't a "shameful" industry. It's no more scandalous than being a professional athlete.

I'd honestly be more horrified if I found out a niece, nephew, cousin etc. was in politics or working for a corrupt state owned company.

I ran into a guy at a work funtion once that I knew from a swingers club, and that was awkward enough.
Cant imagine if it was family.

I would turn around and simply walk away but before I do that I would say to her we need to talk.

I don't know my extended family that well, so won't realise if she is a family member.

But can imagine it to be super akward.

Yippy did you follow through...