2025 has been the worst year of my punting career. I made 16 bookings and out of 16, I'd say 4 were worth every cent and the rest were just bad to worse.

So alot of my regulars left the industry, this forced me to give new people a chance. Oh boy what a disaster, either zero chemistry, cold and uninviting demeanor, being rushed, Catfished (this happened outside of ESA) etc. And those few that gave a great experience, trying to book them again has been mission impossible.

From petrol (I stay far), to booking hotels, to booking the ladies, I don't even wanna know how much I've spent this year. At this point I'm contemplating hanging up my boots. I probably have two more punts left in me...wait one more punt (just tried to make a booking now, person said she will send me her details and she just went AWOL) haha Like what the hell, who did I wrong?

Anyways, I hope the rest of y'all gentlemen had better experiences than me.

Why are you blocked?

Unfortunately, I don't have bottomless wealth. Every time a booking is bad, I feel like I flushed money down the toilet. So I can't keep throwing money away hoping the next one will be worth it. Finding a new regular is costly.

Please recommend someone for me in Gauteng though.

2 years back I celebrated my 45th in style, booked an array of amazing ladies.

This year I have stuck to 1 regular SP every month since January.
Been having awesome bookings with just this 1 SP.

To be honest, I don't have the time, finances or energy to waste on exactly what you experienced, I rather have 12+ GREAT bookings with 1 SP than Tata ma chance like you have.

On 2025-10-15 17:37:41 Knightrider78 said:

I rather have 12+ GREAT bookings with 1 SP than Tata ma chance like you have.

I also prefer that but all my regulars left the industry this year. So I've been trying to find a new regular but majority have not lived up to expectations.

This is so weird because I wanted to post and ask about the ratio of g good punts VS mediocre punts.

Not bad, just mediocre.

For me this year, I had more good than mediocre. Then again, I've had less than 5 punts this year.

Regular is a way to go. Been seeing one lady in Sandton for a while now. The quality has gone street walker level. Still I see many positive reviews of ladies I have seen and wasn't impressed, which is very unhelpful. I decided enough with this trial and error. If that lady left I'd probably quit this game.

...my ratio have always been 95% great punts ever since i started paying attention to the reviews and DM'd punters on more details of their experiences.

If you go in blind just looking at the profiles and thinking with your litle head, the ratio drops a lot. I also dont take a chance on girls if the reviews just give vague feedback, these are punter who are just happy to be in the same room with a beauty - doesnt help if you there for great service.

from doing the initial due-diligence, this will start the girls score at least to 6/10- the experience will just come down to personal preference, taste and service in the visit...this will be the difference between a 6/10 or a 10/10.

@Bongane, bro !....25% is a shit success rate

Lesson : Read the reviews, ask the punters- if you dont, you going to be wasting your cash on 75% shit punts.

On 2025-10-16 11:12:38 Mr Naai-er said:
...my ratio have always been 95% great punts ever since i started paying attention to the reviews and DM'd punters on more details of their experiences.

If you go in blind just looking at the profiles and thinking with your litle head, the ratio drops a lot. I also dont take a chance on girls if the reviews just give vague feedback, these are punter who are just happy to be in the same room with a beauty - doesnt help if you there for great service.

from doing the initial due-diligence, this will start the girls score at least to 6/10- the experience will just come down to personal preference, taste and service in the visit...this will be the difference between a 6/10 or a 10/10.

@Bongane, bro !....25% is a shit success rate

Lesson : Read the reviews, ask the punters- if you dont, you going to be wasting your cash on 75% shit punts.

Not all punters are willing to give you feedback on DMs.

I admit, if a request for info comes to my DM, if I dont know off you at all, I do a quick search of the punter name in the forums and reviews section and if I see that they been around for years and only have single digit posts to date, I will not respond because too many fake profiles popping up and it makes no sense that you a user on ESA for 15+"years with
3 posts to date.

I have also sent DMs to punters and I am still waiting for some to even be read.