Very recently, I had a booking that went a bit differently. The WG was honest about how busy she had been and how sore she was because of it.

That actually broke my heart a bit as I then wondered how many previous WGs had "steeled" themselves through pain to feign enjoyment for my pleasure.

A year ago I was able to wean off porn when it finally sunk in that it's the sex version of WWE, a slap may be real but it's all an elaborate act.

So now I'm at a crossroads. I can't give the WGs name because I wouldn't want her to potentially lose business just because she was able to confide in me but I also don't know if it will ever be the same for me.

Very valid point Sir.

A conundrum indeed. Some punters are real gentlemen, no matter how society might paint us.

As a more mature punter myself, another issue I struggle with is, visiting ladies young enough to be my kid.

Only done it once, and lovely and kind as she was, I dont think I can ever do it again.

Call me what you want, but it is what it is...... For me at least.

You're not going anywhere. She's addicted to the quick cash and you're addicted to quick pussy.

Had the same experience. Was really into this lady we had chemistry and then one visit she told me she had seen so many clients and was sore. Never visited her again. And actually have not punted much since then.

Seriously feel for the ladies in this game. Tough gig.

That is sad and not fair on you that your paid experience was a let down because of her "physical" state.

Allthough i have sympathy for her.

She should not have accepted your appointment if her "physical" state was such that she could not fulfil your requested service.

She could have upon your request for service, before accepting your appointment said.. " sorry i can not accommodate your appointment because of services you need.
I will only accomodate massage, bj sessions for the rest of the day" or whatever she feels she can still do at that moment. She could have said "i will be availabile for the service you need, tomorrow again"

That would have been fair on you,as you would have had the choice as to still go visit for what she was willing to offer at that point or go visit someone else or wait till tomorrow.

She would have been spared the embarrasment of not being able to fullfil a request and also would not have had to explain why she could not fulfil it.

The reality is although many men out there will sympathise with the things we ladies go through. No guy really wants to hear that you have fucked other men in that day and dont want to hear that you are sore as a result. They do not want to pay and then not be able to do what they came to do. They all know you see other men, but most dont want to think about that when they with you and definitely dont want to think about what was done to you to cause you discomfort now while with him.

There is a reason why things like what the OP experienced happens... in the last two years ladies had started to cram in as many bookings as they can in a day ( while it rains collect the water), because there was no certainty of what would be happening tomorow because our country and our economy has gone to shitscreek.

Even i fell prey to this driving need to not miss out on any money. My happy space is 2-3 clients a day on a "low impact" less physically draining day maybe a 4th or an all night...;)

Just after i left gauteng in 2020 i had this overwhelming drive to just work and work and work. Seeing more clients than my normal. I did that for a month or so while traveling down the coast line to cpt. And realised that i cant keep it up. That i will burn myself out and as a result i will not be able to maintain a standard that clients and i will be happy with. I stopped doing that to myself and am back to my space.

Red....this has been happening for longer than 2 years. The same thing happened with me ....probably 4 years ago, and I know exactly how the OP feels.

The advice I got from a another SP those years (when I told her about what happened) was : "Noooo!! You should have fucked her....you paid!"

Agree 1000% with everything Miss Red said!

Guys, this doesn't happen every day.
The lady had the option of turning down the booking but maybe she had to make up for yesterday which may have been dead quiet. Some days I am extremely busy but not every guy wants fh either, so I can do more guys than I normally would. There are also days when you get that one arse who thinks he is a porn star and really hurts... Maybe on that day you only had him and can't afford to turn down the next client. I can imagine this happening if you're working in a place where you have to pay daily. Not all girls are assertive or know how to circumvent the guys who are a bit rough. It takes one inept arsehole to mess up one's day.
I work for myself so I can close shop whenever I want, not all ladies have that option. I have the luxury of being able to space booking far apart or having a limited number of clients per day.