Hi Purple World,

For a while now I've been trying to build up the confidence to book with a WG for the first time. The main thing holding me back is the fear of catching something like herpes/HPV. I've never actually made a booking yet --- I don't want to waste anyone's time by booking and then cancelling or no-showing because of my anxiety. Just wondering if this is normal first-time nerves or if I'm overthinking it. For those of you who have been, how many of you have actually picked something up? And if you did, did you regret going? I also feel wrong to ask WG about their health as it is a very personal question and don't want to offend anyone. Maybe punting is not for me...

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On 2026-08-14 08:33:55 Gabriel01 said:
Maybe punting is not for me...

If you book a WG...the booking will be with a lady who has sex with aloooot of different men. Naturally there will be risks involved for you. If you don't like risks, don't do it.

If you haven't started, do not get into it. This seems exciting and fun, but the addiction is stronger than smoking or drinking or drugs. Once in, nearly impossible to get out.

Also, compromises your genuine relationships and expectation from them.

Think deeply before taking the plunge, because the plunge will take you deeper than you expect

My 20c. Sorry ladies for the above.

If you have a fear you have a few options, mix and match like you need,and follow your hearth sir.

1)get vaccinated against HPV, and everything else, if you feel like this hobby is for you consider going on prep/doxyprep (look it up on google)+condoms

2) Stick to massage only, no oral no FH, no sliding on your dick without protection

3)only use condoms for everything (oral/Vaginal/anal) careful of that vagina slide girls do to well you could get an STI or something. Penicillin is your friend, or something for yeast infection

4)use only condoms for vaginal/anal sex

5th options is 99% safe if you are in a monogamous relationship, dont start the hobby or any other extra mural activities.

Been at this for 22 years, I have not caught anything, except a feelings once or twice.I get tested every 3 months

Like what has been said many times over many years this is like getting a Tattoo, your either going to regret it immediately and never do it again, or you will be addicted.

On 2026-08-14 08:33:55 Gabriel01 said:
Hi Purple World,

For a while now I've been trying to build up the confidence to book with a WG for the first time. The main thing holding me back is the fear of catching something like herpes/HPV. I've never actually made a booking yet --- I don't want to waste anyone's time by booking and then cancelling or no-showing because of my anxiety. Just wondering if this is normal first-time nerves or if I'm overthinking it. For those of you who have been, how many of you have actually picked something up? And if you did, did you regret going? I also feel wrong to ask WG about their health as it is a very personal question and don't want to offend anyone. Maybe punting is not for me...

I've serviced many virgins (literally and figuratively), come and see me ;)

Listen to yourself, let your paranoia guide you.

This is a very expensive, and addictive hobby.

Stay away for as long as possible