Anyone here has any experience with sugar dating sites in SA?

Been giving it a try in SA for a few weeks but it seems like most girls are looking for online arrangements here, probably due to safety.

In UK and Europe, the scene is exploding. Filled with girls next door types and university students just having a bit of a side hustle. Waitresses, retail workers, air hostesses and medical students are just a few of the types I've met on there. Extremely attractive 8-10's. Usually in the region of 200-300 Euro's per meet, sometimes overnight. But the experience is a lot less transactional and a lot more GFE and 'real' than with a pro WG.

It takes time and work to find the diamonds in the rough and have the convo's, but extremely worth it.

I wonder if it will ever take off in SA, or if the safety factors etc. means it's too much of a risk for the average lady?

It would be interesting if SA had sites like this that make it a lot more straightforward.

I wonder if those women see it as punting though. Essentially it is the same thing. We would pay them a set price for their time and some set services so basically same thing but the duration seems longer but probably comparable to an overnight anyway. It's just their mind doesn't see it as plain down prostitution I guess which makes it seem less transactional.

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There is one popular site that's growing worldwide, in SA too. But in SA the girls seem a bit delusional in thinking that they can get sugar daddies send them money for online chatting.

Yes, it's quite funny how they don't like it to be seen as prostitution. But in most cases the ladies prefer to meet for an introductory drink to get to know you and develop chemistry and decide if they wanna sleep with you and negotiate a price.

So if you're not too ugly/overweight/creepy, the ladies see it as an ordinary hookup or one night stand with the bonus of getting paid.

And to be honest, because they are normal ladies and not proper SP, the quality of women is naturally much higher than what you'd see on any SP site. And it makes it quite difficult to come back to and enjoy the regular punting scene with pro WG

Makes you wonder what the future of the traditional relationship is.

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I've put myself on a number of these sites and the sites are not functional. I legitimately mean that lol!

My friends also joined a number of these but here is the problem:

1. My calibre of friends are incredibly pleasing to the eye but they expect the same I'm return. They want the entire package. So then when they do meet up, they are disappointed and decline any offers.

2. I guess our people have fought incredibly hard for freedom. There is NO way I'll have my agency or autonomy taken from me and we are a very independent nation. We have been through a lot to fight for our rights and I can safely say that my friends included will never let an arrangement take away from their freedom.

3. Partnership is exactly that, partnership and it is when two people have an agreement. Our generation is more and more self absorbed. Our society is more and more self absorbed. Few people actually want partnership but have actual expectations based solely on one side, their side.

Stick to those in the industry. Rather get a monthly retainer or something.

On 2022-08-02 15:03:34 majorjohn said:
Makes you wonder what the future of the traditional relationship is.

Yep.

On 2022-08-02 20:57:25 Raphael_ Xclusive said:



3. Partnership is exactly that, partnership and it is when two people have an agreement. Our generation is more and more self absorbed. Our society is more and more self absorbed. Few people actually want partnership but have actual expectations based solely on one side, their side.

Yep...all about me, me and ME.

How does this differ from the Blessor / Blessee scenario that are extremly popular among some of our African cultures her in SA.