Why can I safely say that S's perpetual negative responses sometimes make me laugh but that most of the times the negative energy is unwelcome and that my conclusive feeling towards her is a form of feeling sorry for her as I think it must be hard to live your life constantly only seeing the worst possible interpretation of everything.
Saying thus is likely to earn me an earful of defensive comments from her and a few folks who had the opportunity to see her positive side stepping in to say it's not as bad as it looks to me.
But it's unlikely to earn me the wrath of the majority.

BUT

Were I to say positive things about ladies naming them (I'll do so in another post at some time) or give them full score reviews month after month, then i get attacked for doing so for alterior reasons. Assumed that I am pussy whipped. Heck I may even be discussed behind my back to check if I am a real punter or just a fake profile created by an sp for reasons of self promotion?



In one line: Why is it ok to say negative things but when positive things are said, folks doubt the authors motives?

S? Who is that? Say it with your chest!

Sabrina maybe?

On 2022-09-16 09:17:03 richard7 said:
S? Who is that? Say it with your chest!

Yeah, grow a pair

I find that it is not just SP's that do this but also some of the punters where the majority of the comments made are more negative than positive. As much as I try to skip the negative, it is sometimes hard to do so because there are so many.

I guess different people will always respond differently to me and they will feel the same.

As a parting note, the weekend is starting and I hope all punters and SP's alike have a fabulous weekend.

On 2022-09-16 09:25:30 Plod1975 said:
I find that it is not just SP's that do this but also some of the punters where the majority of the comments made are more negative than positive. As much as I try to skip the negative, it is sometimes hard to do so because there are so many.

I guess different people will always respond differently to me and they will feel the same.

As a parting note, the weekend is starting and I hope all punters and SP's alike have a fabulous weekend.

He's specifically referring to my reply on the thread regarding women who allow cim. It's not negative, but rather factual. Women aren't swallowing for clients because they enjoy it, rather to have a few rands in their pockets that they otherwise wouldn't have had (even though it's awfully risky)

On 2022-09-16 09:28:46 Sabrina said:

He's specifically referring to my reply on the thread regarding women who allow cim. It's not negative, but rather factual. Women aren't swallowing for clients because they enjoy it, rather to have a few rands in their pockets that they otherwise wouldn't have had (even though it's awfully risky)

And I respect your comments on that thread just as I respect the others as well, but I chose not to comment there for my own reasons as I choose not to share more here.

On 2022-09-16 09:09:06 Cunilinkiss said:

In one line: Why is it ok to say negative things but when positive things are said, folks doubt the authors motives?

Unfortunately it's one of those very annoying industry trades. For you,it might be not being able to say positive things. For some of us we are not allowed to do positive things, some of us can't, God forbid, do well...
We can't see the sun shine over anyone else but us.

I get it though... Some ladies don't know any better, specially those who have only ever been in the industry. Also, the general consensus under us is that we are in direct competition of each other... Which is the biggest misconception we can have!

So can we really blame others who don't know better? Or should we just show them that a positive energy exists, and that it's mostly non biased and okay?

Something to think about ;)

Kisses
Angie

Thank you for rising to the occasion S.
You proved my point.

Also thank you for telling me what I was referring to. The truth however is that my conclusion was drawn over time. At least you are consistent!!

Again, the truth is actually that there are more than one negative Nellie "S" on forum...
Truth also is that I was too lazy to check which adds were active so I did not want to risk a ban.

But all that just as an aside as the point remains why we are more prone to negative than positive.
A is also right in her reference to how sps respond to each other.


Can't we please make this positive Friday?

Unfortunately that's how the whole world works, no one really wants to see the sun shine on someone else, or they secretly enjoy when I'll fate befalls another.
Thats why newspapers sell and people are glued to news channels... Even the normal news on etv or any other station is a half hour of kak and drama and the at the end a positive story of 30seconds or less.

Humans in there very nature are selfish cruel creatures but hide behind a filter of caring and empathy.

As for Sabrina, all you can do is ignore her, because like Male a she thrives on the negative and "shocking" statements and it keeps her relevant in her own little way.