Am originally from SA but have worked in Europe for the last 5 years - was curious if any girls offered a gfe (girl friend experience) a lot do over here but have found a lot of escorts in SA to be a little too business like...

For those of you who are coming over to visit I can recommend...

http://www.blonde-escorts-uk.co.uk/home.php

or

http://www.executive-escorts.com/

If any girls are reading this and do offer a gfe plse drop me a line will be in Jhb in Nov with $$ to burn....

Like LondonCalling I would also like to find girls offering GFE in Jhb.

I am from the UK but now resident in RSA. The GFE service is very popular in the UK and mainland Europe. It is not only a matter of the services offered but also the attitude of the escort (normally referred to in the UK as a WG - Working Girl).

A Girl Friend Experience is literally what the name implies - a booking with a girl who offers a session as good as, or better than, the horniest girl friend you have ever had.

It normally starts with kissing, cuddling and undressing each other and then progresses naturally through foreplay, which includes French Kissing (tongues in mouths), fondling and mutual masterbation to mutual oral sex (usually without a condom) to full house (known as FS - Full Sex) and sometimes anal (known as "A" or "A Levels").

The services to be expected as part of a GFE normally include:

DFK - Deep french Kissing
OWO - Oral Without (sometimes also known as BBBJ - Bare Back Blow Job)
DATY - Dine at the Y - giving the girl oral sex (also known as Reverse Oral)
CIM - Come in the Mouth (they do usually spit rather than swallow)

Vaginal and anal penetration is always with a condom (unless you have a death wish and can find a girl with the same morbid inclination).

As LondonCalling comments, most of the Working Girls in South Africa (certainly the ones I have been with) are rather more detached and business like than the typical GFE would dictate.

If there is a South African GFE out there, I would love to hear from her - she could easily get herself a regular client.

A note for you to consider Sally. In the UK, sites such as the ones LodonCalling mentions normally carry more details about the WGs. Typical info is:

Age
Height
Weight
Measurements (e.g. 34C-23-34)
Services Offered (GFE, DFK, OWO, CIM, FS, A Levels, etc)
Rates (incalls and outcalls)
Days/Times available
plus some fairly explicit pictures

UK girls provide all that information because they claim it saves a lot of time-wasting phone calls and restricts calls to the genuine Punters (clients).

Judging by the comments attached to a number of the girls on your site, (some of which are, admittedly, from real dick heads) your genuine members would appreciate the additional information - I certainly would).

Just a thought - take or leave it - tell me to @!#$ off - whatever. You're still providing the best WG selection I have found in South Africa. Keep up the good work.

There are one or two of the ladies here that offer something similar to what you have described. The first who springs to mind is Blue. She is wonderfully attentive, and very bubbly. Another is Nicky in Orange Grove. (excellent kisser, and sublime BBBJ).

However, you are perfectly correct that most girls offer nothing more than a wham-bang-thank you-ma'am service which is pretty darned boring.

Sally, I like the suggestion of listing rates on your site. I think it will have the tendency of self-regulating the industry to some extent.

Regards,
HM

I can't help but agree with what these three gents say! In Cape Town it a lot worse as most ladies are only interested in "getting over with it"

There is one lady however that I have been with that is superb in this regard. She treats you like a lover and provides the most wonderful experience. Unfortunately she is not on this site.

As far as rates are concerned, I totally agree that it would help a lot if this was added to each ad.

Dear Sally,

There already appears to be some support for the additional information I suggested.

ESA is already one of the leading sites in the SA escort industry. Why not take the lead in bringing the SA industry in line with the rest of the world. I really believe it would enhance your membership and hence your advertising revenue. Once others see your success they will follow and everyone will benefit.

The other thing for your girls to bear in mind is that, if they want to attract international clients with Dollars, Pounds and Euros, they need to comply with overseas norms of advertising AND SERVICE.

There are a few ladies in SA who have already worked this out. Their private web sites carry full details of themselves, their services and prices but, unfortunately, there are only two or three of these that I have found so far.

Why not have a poll amongst your members and advertisers.

My prediction is that the members will be overwhelmingly in favour of more information whilst the advertisers will be a split vote.

The successful, attractive girls who provide a good service will be in favour because they will see an opportunity to reduce time-wasting calls and increase their business.

The "lower end" of the trade will be against because they will see business declining. Perhaps that's not such a bad thing. After all, Charles Darwin proved quite conclusively that "natural selection" is a very effective mechanism for ensuring survival of the fittest and improving the general health of the species.

How about starting a trend here?

Try Blue She is wonderfull

BLUE IS DEFINATELY THE GFE YOU'RE LOOKING FOR AND UMMM SO IS ROBIN if I can think of any more I'll let you know.

Lots of love

HSS

it was nice to read your comment. the ladies here are all too business like. why dont you give me a call when you are in town.

Hi Sally and guys.

It's been a while since I was last around. Been in Dallas working on contract for the last few months. Now there's a place to find good working girls! They have this amazing attitude to providing service and pleasure and they understand the good commercial principle of "good service earns repeat business". Anyway, that's another story.

Follow up on previous postings:

I tried Blue as recommended - twice. She certainly is well above average on the GFE service and very enjoyable.

I also tried Robin once - also very nice - especially the greek.

I checked out Sabrina's details but didn't visit her because she is black.

Blue and Robin were certainly above average but a bit too old for me. As far as Sabrina is concerned, black girls don't do it for me. It's not a racialist thing, black girls just don't turn me on. I like white skin and pink nipples.

Now Sally, please don't give me a hard time here - we all have our personal preferences and mine are for a white girl in her late teens or early twenties.

I notice there is still not a lot of extra information being offered about the girls. I guess the resistance to this is higher than I expected.

Any girls or guys got further suggestions on where to find a young, white, GFE experience?

I'm back in SA and horny as hell so any recommendations from the guys or Sally (or offers from the girls) would be greatly appreciated.

Have a lekker 2004 - may your orgasms be multiple.