Hello, so I tried calling around for this, but mostly had no hits. Thought I would put it here so hopefully somebody can contact me. I'm in Randburg area btw.

Looking for regular flexible arrangement. I don't like sex with strangers, so that's not a requirement. I do like massages and blowjobs without.

I also work weird hours, so some flexibility around that is good. All nighters are good, but not a requirement. Likewise, ladies have quiet days, so I'm fine with working around that. I know how much it sucks to turn away clients on a busy day, and then sit quiet the next day.

I know what I want in my head, but seems I may not be articulating it correctly :D Let me know if anybody is interested....

Hi there.

I am having trouble understanding your request. What is a regular flexible arrangement?

Someone who is available when you need, regardless the hour?

Massage with OWO is a requirement but fh isn't. I got that part lol

For instance, how would your arrangement work with someone who works for a venue? Or are you looking at a private individual?

Lol, well I was hoping somebody would fill in the details for me....

My previous arrangement I gave her money, but then if I could only finish work at 1am she was totally cool with me coming over and spending the night (even though she had set work hours). That sort of thing.

Don't expect somebody to be on call 24/7 :P

Thank you for clarifying.

Kinda like a girlfriend retainer deal?

JP69

Not many will be happy to be woken at 1 and stand ready with a smile.

Not saying it's wrong or impossible. Just think you will be fishing from a small pool of volunteers

I also find it awkward with strangers and prefer to be intimate with someone I know and like but HOW?

It's difficult to build that sense of comfort and rapport first cos girls don't have the time to chat to get to know you.

It's a business

I guess I should try a few that appeal in the hope that one of them has a personality I like and appreciate

On 2022-12-25 13:24:02 Cunilinkiss said:
Not many will be happy to be woken at 1 and stand ready with a smile.

Not saying it's wrong or impossible. Just think you will be fishing from a small pool of volunteers

True but I have come across a few gems in the past that unfortunately are no longer in the business. Those were some nice nights. A small pool indeed but a worthwhile pool if you find some gems that look forward to seeing you, even at odd hours of the morning.

N4P

On 2022-12-25 15:30:45 seanc said:
I also find it awkward with strangers and prefer to be intimate with someone I know and like but HOW?

It's difficult to build that sense of comfort and rapport first cos girls don't have the time to chat to get to know you.

It's a business

I guess I should try a few that appeal in the hope that one of them has a personality I like and appreciate

Also wanting exactly the same. There needs to be a connection and intimacy. Otherwise may as well stay home and sort myself out lol

Well my sweets. If i stayed in this area, om in roodepoort now only visiting, i wouldn't mind being your go to girl. But unfortunately i stay in benoni.

Would've been lots and lots and lots of fun tho