Has anyone ever had a session where everything is going great? The conversation is good. The touching is sensual; and then after the deed, things just go... cold.

After the shower the other person in the room is just distant? Like she/he just remembered they left the stove on at home or something.

Does this ever happen to anyone?

lol not directed at you or anyone specific BUT i think clients really need to understand and accept the CLIENT / SPs relationship is just that.

I often find some are looking for a girlfriend experience and chatting etc. this isn't the platform for it. Its your own expectations that disappointed you.

Some clients really need to sit and think...if I wasn't paying her, will she still see me or "enjoy" the session.

There are lots of other apps and sites that offer wot you want, purple world will only leave you disappointed with regards to that.

Purple place is just a fantasy bubble. Keep it there and enjoy for wot the moment is. Until the next time you re-visit. Thats just my opinion

Have to agree with Petite Maya, you pay for "X" amount of time, after that, you on your own, she needs to dedicate her time to the next customers.

On 2023-01-04 08:41:22 Petite Maya said:
lol not directed at you or anyone specific BUT i think clients really need to understand and accept the CLIENT / SPs relationship is just that.

I often find some are looking for a girlfriend experience and chatting etc. this isn't the platform for it. Its your own expectations that disappointed you.

You're not wrong, but my post really wasn't about that. It was more in the vein of questioning if this is normal behaviour or if the fault somehow landed in something I did. I try my best ti be respectful so if i crossed some kind of line i need to be aware of it and do better.

But to the points you've made, there have been several SP's who have confessed to developing feelings for certain clients.

Heck, even one of the bluntest, most unfiltered SP that I've seen on these pages has written a lovelorn post about a client of hers.

True these don't occur often. But it happens. To completely negate human nature during acts of sensuality isn't always possible.

Maybe it will happen to you one day. Maybe it won't. Who knows?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating for anyone to persue an SP if she hasn't shown a clear interest in them.

Dont over think things sweets.

I doubt you did anything wrong. I cant answer if that's "normal" or not bcz each one has their own mechanisms of how to switch off emotions.

Just let it be and don't overthink and dont make it a thing by texting her about it. if she accepts your booking next time then you know you did nothing wrong.

I do agree that sometimes we can care for a client. Care and love are different things. Clients sometimes take it the wrong way and become delusional, its very tricky. We can't confuse love and lust.

I care about oom oubaas bcz shame he had so many surgeries done in hz life also he has a lekker boerewors for me to play with...that boerewors goes nicely in between my buns and hands. He also has big thick wallet which becomes generous to me. I still care about him, he likes me and i like him. But wot do we really know about each other? He doesn't even know my favorite food but yet i like him. 1 hour in a room is so yummy and lusty we confuse like and lust.


Not saying this is all cases please now people...sometimes it does become more and can work but very minimal.

You mentioned one of the SPs wrote a lovelorn post. Is it really "love" though if she no longer received money from that man will she still "love" him. Also if he doesn't get BJs and sex from her will he still love her? Or will he return to the purple pages? Hmmm


PRO TIP: never forget how you met someone and in which manner / platform. These days everything is too easy... swipe left to right. Learn from oom oubass...the only swipes he does is when he takes me shopping.

FYI Just my opinion so please don't start fights with me, im not in the mood today. Maybe i need a nice boerewors to energize me.

On 2023-01-04 08:06:53 YourChunkyFunkiness said:

After the shower the other person in the room is just distant? Like she/he just remembered they left the stove on at home or something.

Post-nut clarity.

:)))

Personally I think it depends on the people some are just that easy to enjoy from beginning to end end with goodbye hugs and kisses some even send text to thank me afterwards. It's easy to build lusty relationships with the right kind of client but let's not confuse this for Love though I must admit that I have over the years grown to love a number of my clients because I care but it does not mean that I am in love it just means that platonic love, care and trust has been established over time.

Others might just not connect as well or something may have put them off during the the booking the good bye then ends up being a bland wtf kind of good bye.

Personally as much as I enjoy my clients we have to also understand that not everyone is enjoyable.

I fact I have had times where I have saved a clients number after the booking as give it a miss or not a nice booking at all or uncomfortable. Personally I prefer to save numbers of guys I don't want to see after I feel a booking went south and by South I don't mean I between my legs.

Not everyone knows how to get the lust going.

On 2023-01-04 11:06:59 Laura Love said:
On 2023-01-04 08:06:53 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
After the shower the other person in the room is just distant? Like she/he just remembered they left the stove on at home or something.


Post-nut clarity.

:)))

Hahahahavesexwithmehaha

@Petite Maya; we are on the exact same page now. I wholeheartedly agree with you.

P.S. you opinions are always welcome :)

@Arhwen;when you say 'bland goodbyes" it almost perfectly sums up the experience. She wasn't angry, or frustrated just a major tonal shift to indifference.

But I'll take both of your advice and not read too much into it. If she sees me again, great.