So gents and ladies im confused. I see some ladies veering away from lube towards coconut oil. Why is that ? Oils can weaken the strength of a condom or am i misinformed ? Is it sensation or cost-can someone enlighten me

Organic food grade Coconut oil doesn't contain petroleum.
It's the petroleum that erodes condoms and can cause infection in lady parts.

I've been a big fan of coconut oil for the past 6 years and have been using it exclusively.

The less organic oils commonly used eats through washing machine rubber and I have developed allergies to it.

Coconut oil is a little heavier and is more difficult to wash out of towels but it's been worth it for me.

One can't do better than jojoba oil for massage purposes but it is extremely expensive at over R800 a litre last I checked.

Grapeseed oil has been most popular for massage in most massage spas as it has a very nice viscosity
Personally I find it way to hard to get out of my towels simply because of the quantities I swim in

Thank You Lovely Lady for the detailed explanations, much appreciated.

This is obviously a subjective view and naturally it would depend on the activity being participated in, but I have never had a GF drench herself in oil (whatever kind) before I'm above to play horizontal snooker ... hahaha ... :)

So, unless a lady is struggling with self-lubrication for whatever reason, a tad bit of oil ... never really had that happen ... but regardless that little bottle oil comes out and I find it to be a bit of a turnoff ... especially when we are in the heat ... and I'm dining in between positions and moving from different places bed to floor to table to couch to shower to plinth ... all over, which I enjoy ... the passionate steamy against the wall etc.

And then all I'm tasting is any oily substance ... which leaves like a lining on my pallet for a couple of hours after ...

It could purely be a cost thing. Commercially packaged lube is very expensive. Check the Durex range etc - some are easily R200+.

Simple solution for FH encounters is to carry your own. Dischem has one called EasyGlide which comes in very small pocket-size tubes of 75ml which is far far more than enough for any multiple rounds in a session and costs the same price as a pack of normal range condoms. It's water-based, washes off material and even yourselves easy and quickly in the shower but gives such an brilliant added sliding pleasure, smoother strokes and of course absolute comfort whether entry is via front or rear door.

I have used it for greek and it made it divine super comfortable for the lady. It was such a pleasurable and a memorable clean experience.

I know there is a lot more, but bringing your own kit (lube+condoms) I want to believe would really help take some of the extra costs away from SPs helping them have better profit margins and accordingly keep overall rates reasonable.

Just leave her the rest if any of condoms or lube is left over - just bring a new kit next session.

Erm nooooooo ways coconut oil breaks condoms almost imm. Only lube. Coconut oil nice for massage and play. Make sure cleaned off with lube then as usual

On 2023-01-28 09:11:25 GTR9000 said:
So gents and ladies im confused. I see some ladies veering away from lube towards coconut oil. Why is that ? Oils can weaken the strength of a condom or am i misinformed ? Is it sensation or cost-can someone enlighten me

Terrible !!

On 2023-01-29 12:45:55 Mandy said:
Erm nooooooo ways coconut oil breaks condoms almost imm. Only lube. Coconut oil nice for massage and play. Make sure cleaned off with lube then as usual

Eeeerm.no
Food grade Coconut does not.

I use ONLY technical oil.

It is odourless, does not clog pores, water based and leaves no stains. Wonderful for those that may be prone to allergies .

I use it as my base oil when an aromatherapy massage is requested mixing in my blend of a drop or two of concentrated oils depending on mood and "subconcious" wellness and resting of mind and body.

But then again mine is all about the touch and building up a sweat and dripping wetness....GRIN.....working toward relief once or twice or....

RB.