In all my years of punting I have never gifted a service provider (maybe I'm frugal), but I've seen a couple of posts from punters in their reviews that they took a gift with to a booking, even first time bookings. Gifting honestly never crosses my mind and I don't think I'd have the time to go out and buy a gift either.

I hope the sexercise makes up for me pitching empty handed (with the exception of the notes in the wallet).

Thoughts?

Over the years, I have occasionally bought gifts, mostly flowers/chocolate and a few custom gifts. All were for ladies that I knew well or for birthdays. They were an act of spontaneity on my part, and shouldn't be expected all the time. I think most ladies consider gifts as a bonus, not a given. We're all struggling for cash and petrol nowadays anyway lol...

So...without getting into too many details...one thing I'll say is that I've been very close with certain WGs and the gifts have usually been shared with me (if edible). I personally don't do gifts either, but hey, kudos to you guys who do because I've enjoyed the free wine and chocolates quite a bit :P

Each to their own.

I barely can spare the hour for the 15 minutes blow and go because I take into account the prep and travel like today, Aunty Sage has such a great special on and I would have loved to visit but just don't have the time, so no way can I be going around shopping for a booking.

Some guys have different lifestyles with more free time and I would say different financial priorities and have been brought up to believe they need to do that or maybe groomed into believing they will only have or have a better experience by doing that so they do.

I can say that I've been to many wgs that have raved about some gift some punter brought but I still got stellar if not better service from them even though I didn't. I would rather focus my energy, cash, and time on self improvement on being a better man that a women would want to fuck irrespective of what I do or don't bring than trying to convince them to do better because they feel obligated to show some appreciation.

Think about it, would you prefer or want to fuck a toned gorgeous lady of note and happens to be very smart that literally did nothing for you but agree to fuck you or a whale with bad hair and pimples because she took you out to dinner and bought you beer and a PS5? Yeah, sure you want those thing and can appreciate it and will probably give a pity fuck but just choosing between who you want to fuck... you know the answer.

But that's just me and I learnt that it doesn't work for everyone and for many throwing money and gifts is more feasible or sensible than the self development required. Do what you think works for you.

N4P

As a fairly new WG, I must say the first time I received a gift from a client I was overjoyed. It made me feel special and appreciated for what I do, and a client bringing a gift is symbolic of their character. Not to say if you don't bring a gift then you're rude. A gift can be in the form of money, good manners, punctuality and mutual respect, it all makes the lady happy and her job more enjoyable... Although I can admit that a chocolate or a wine that I can share with my colleagues is more eventful and quite memorable. It can even get one's mind off of the fears that come with this industry;)

Not much of a gifter here either and especially not on the first visit. If I were to gift then I would consider things such as how was the service on the first visit, did we click, what is her personality like, how attractive she is, do I intend on making her a regular, and her overall price tag. I would assess these factors and then decide if I should gift on subsequent visits. I would also remember at the back of my mind that punting is a transaction and gifting should ideally be kept for those ladies outside of the purple world in my opinion.

Prefer to tip if the service was good

I suppose it depends on the relationship between the client and SP, I have received the occasional champagne on a first booking over the years but that would mostly be in longer bookings for example an apology for being late,it's not a gift it's a drink hahaha

Then again I have not had a bday in this industry without prezzies from my regulars, I suppose it depends of sy in hom hart kRyo of nie haha

K

I have on ver rare occasions gifted. And then it was after i was a regular for months.

Recently, a SP told me that i need to bring her gifts. As i have been seeing her about once a week, she seems to argue i need to also bring gifts. Well, that was the end of seeing that regular. Obviously paying her full rate, was not good enough for the pain and effort she goes thru in seeing me from, her perspective :-)

My argument regarding tips/gifts goes like this. If you earn more than R800 an hour, it is an insult to tip. I dont tip my dentist, doctor, pilot, urologist (and the list goes on) as they all earn tons of money, and would probably feel insulted if i do.

But i almost always tip the petrol attendant, the car guard, my domestic, garden worker, waiter etc