Ladies and gentlemen... firstly let me apologise for this message. I just need to vent to people who would understand where I'm coming from.

Leave now to avoid a painfully boring and self-serving soliloquy!

I have been on this site and other like it for +-15/20 years and I have honestly spent an excessive amount of money in the pursuit of hedonistic pleasure over that time but never in all those years have I found it this hard to find good service providers. Before you huff and puff in indignation or write me off as another whiner, let me elaborate and tell you why I say this:

1. I have specific type/age/race/ that I look for and theyre becoming scarcer and scarcer - maybe i need to branch out but again, years of experience led me here
2. I can't always drive 45mins there and 45min back to pretoria or centurion or the east rand where the selection seems to be getting better and better - so I do restrict myself to Jhb northern suburbs... the market is very congested here but the quality is VERY questionable
3. The ratio of calls made to calls answered is sooo small - 1:6 to 1:8 on a good day - and when answered, there is nothing worse than someone that sounds like youve interrupted their very important day with an inane call
4. The ad descriptions are so thin that you hardly know what you're in for. the other sites dont even have the option of reviews so theres no point going to them.
5. I have a rule which may be a contentious one but if I read even 1 bad review I'm out! You may say thats unfair and I am willing to hear you out on this but I have been proven right on this rule too many times and I am talking about *legit* reviews on bad service
6. I have never had an issue paying for good value but some of the prices are insane - especially for someone you dont know. I am happy to pay once I know the standard.
7. Do I need to stick to the "available now" section so I dont bother anyone thats not available because it seems like there are sooo many more SPs on the site that are never in the avaialable now section.

I'm sorry if this is a painful read. I'm just so frustrated trying to find the right person/people at the right price for the right level of service.

ok.... rant over .... nornal programming resumes in 5...4...3...2...1

..I never go to "available now"...never really accurate....I want what i want ! and what I see....99% of the time they available...if they not, I will wait - thats the whole point of online shopping.


so stay strong, we hear you....but dont get bogged-down in the details...go forth and fuck.

Spoken like a trooper!!! Thanks!!

There are very few available now ladies that are actually available, mostly they keep it running in the hope you will book later. I have often been told sorry I'm only available later today, especially the ones on early in the morning

Hardly ever use that function as I 1)forget about it and that we can use it and 2)i found it does not do much for me in the moment other than lead to more views on profile.. ;)

But I did use it just now.. as I find myself at my place of "pleasure" with a bit of free time:) and a few extra views can't do any harm even if it's just that.

very interesting perspective!!! Ive been labouring under the false impression that it would increase the chances of success

The other avalibility indicator is "last online " This info indicates when last the sp was online and if avaliable on the day.
Iv used this measure on a few occasions.

yeah also thought thats a good indicator !

For me personally, I don't do morning booking unless I slept over in a B&B.
Even if I wanted to , I can't reserve a room in a B&B at 05:00 am in the morning.

Yes that is the time I start my morning booking.

Reservations of a room in a B&B start after 10:00 am
And the reason to this method,is that rooms must be refreshed before the new guest.

I keep my Ensuite room clean at all time , I'm at work, not on holiday.

So Yes....
Let it be Loud and clear

Once Allora hit the Available button on ESA at 05:am in the morning, it simply means I am available instantly, period!

Allora

On 2025-07-10 12:43:13 Bilbo said:
There are very few available now ladies that are actually available, mostly they keep it running in the hope you will book later. I have often been told sorry I'm only available later today, especially the ones on early in the morning

You know what I've realised though , is that some times I will switch that available indicator on, and get calls immediately. And you wanna know what's funny? Some days I do the same, then wait 30 minutes after 30 minutes and no calls, no text, but the minutes im occupied, and now my availability indicator is off , then my phone loose it, and ring out of control, with number of requests on my what's app .
I wanna know from the guys , is it a major turn on to book someone who is busy?

May be it's a question for another thread... But yeah
He'll it's funny I can not comprehend.

Allora