Why always so much Drama between some Punters and some WG's? No wonder most of the WG's don't waste their time here. Would it not be great to get more WG's on this forum even more Punters. It's a great platform to sas out a WG you have your eye on, her comments and interests. It could help making up you mind if it's a yes or a no.
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As many have said before.... just my 2c

I have to agree with you. I enjoy the forum topics that attract conversation, not monologs. Debates, and not arguments. I felt when there are WG comments that it shows their maturity, interests and intellect. I am more likely to book with an active participant of the forum with something to say.

I used to love having an opinion and commenting on topics I found interesting, but got so drained with all the negativity, rudeness, drama and obvious belittling that I decided it's best to say less.it has become really nasty on here.

I don't know how many times the past few months I've had an opinion or wanted to make a comment on a topic but decided it's best to erase the whole thing and just move on, because the possibility of someone misunderstanding me or failing to answer me respectfully or politely and non-sarcastically could turn into a whole unnecessary exchange of words and at the end of the day, possibly a loss of business for me.


I honestly, because of this, would advise other wgs to say as little as possible for the sake of what's important, the actual business, because it seems we can't have healthy conversations and debates without being nasty and name calling and shaming and "I definitely won't visit you for what you've just said" and and and ..

I agree with u sinker69 and have said it many many times.

I see it this way.

First .. men seem to like drama and call it feisty and spur her on when a SP actually is being an immature asshole and a disruption distasteful.

Second..when a SP has an opinion , she will be called out by some very opinionated and verbose punters as "thinking she is all royal and intelligent ".

Drama can be good...a venting and sharing of ideas BUT, playing the ball rather than the person throwing childish insults usually found in playgrounds seems to not be understood in this ADULT WORLD.

And for me...one that really irks me....SP 's creating Punter profiles and posing as such....WTF is that???

With what confidence does one engage or respond if there is some stupid agenda at play snd has been proven to be so time and time again....what is that???

Considering this is already all "cloak and dagger", why the lies and deceit too?

The jealousy is spurred, the insecurity is obvious and the best remain in hiding.

What a pity.

RB.

That's so true, the best remain in hiding
"The jealousy is spurred, the insecurity is obvious and the best remain in hiding.

What a pity.

RB."

You'll get slashed for your 2c soon lmao.

I think its just frustration. Life frustration and financial strain. Men may want to punt but either no free time or financial strain. same with SPs fighting life stress financial strain

So get laid people! Good for your skin and hair and happy hormones flowing so you dont overthink, become paranoid and less fights

That's why I comment where I want and leave the drama's for the Queens and kinga lol

@Midnight Express, you couldn't have said it better - taking your advice.

On 2023-02-21 07:59:34 Midnight Express said:
I used to love having an opinion and commenting on topics I found interesting, but got so drained with all the negativity, rudeness, drama and obvious belittling that I decided it's best to say less.it has become really nasty on here.

I was waiting for you to say you don't participate as frequently because people end up recycling your posts, haha! Too soon? Maybe ;)

On 2023-02-21 08:10:38 Russian Bridgitte said:
I agree with u sinker69 and have said it many many times.

I see it this way.

First .. men seem to like drama and call it feisty and spur her on when a SP actually is being an immature asshole and a disruption distasteful.

Second..when a SP has an opinion , she will be called out by some very opinionated and verbose punters as "thinking she is all royal and intelligent ".

Drama can be good...a venting and sharing of ideas BUT, playing the ball rather than the person throwing childish insults usually found in playgrounds seems to not be understood in this ADULT WORLD.

And for me...one that really irks me....SP 's creating Punter profiles and posing as such....WTF is that???

With what confidence does one engage or respond if there is some stupid agenda at play snd has been proven to be so time and time again....what is that???

Considering this is already all "cloak and dagger", why the lies and deceit too?

The jealousy is spurred, the insecurity is obvious and the best remain in hiding.

What a pity.

RB.

What she said.