After being a member of the purple world for the past 5 years,iv realized one of the hardest things is to find a WG to keep seeing as a regular. Some guys seem to get this right, but iv really struggled. Being a super nice guy,always tip or bring a small gift (chocolate or wine) and always compliment, I can never find a girl who consistently ticks my boxes.

It's either they ask to borrow money after the 3rd visit,disappoint on a visit or just do something that spoils everything.

Does anyone else have this problem?

Don't worry buddy. I'm so friendly I got friend zoned by a WG. Imagine that. Da fuck

On 2023-03-21 19:25:56 Cookie_muncher said:
After being a member of the purple world for the past 5 years,iv realized one of the hardest things is to find a WG to keep seeing as a regular. Some guys seem to get this right, but iv really struggled. Being a super nice guy,always tip or bring a small gift (chocolate or wine) and always compliment, I can never find a girl who consistently ticks my boxes.

It's either they ask to borrow money after the 3rd visit,disappoint on a visit or just do something that spoils everything.

Does anyone else have this problem?

Yes I do.
Either ends up with her doing the attempted money loan or after a few visits the amount of effort put into the session starts to drop.

On 2023-03-21 20:41:39 WillGrey said:
Don't worry buddy. I'm so friendly I got friend zoned by a WG. Imagine that. Da fuck

That actually made me chuckle! Hmmm

On 2023-03-21 19:25:56 Cookie_muncher said:
After being a member of the purple world for the past 5 years,iv realized one of the hardest things is to find a WG to keep seeing as a regular. Some guys seem to get this right, but iv really struggled. Being a super nice guy,always tip or bring a small gift (chocolate or wine) and always compliment, I can never find a girl who consistently ticks my boxes.

It's either they ask to borrow money after the 3rd visit,disappoint on a visit or just do something that spoils everything.

Does anyone else have this problem?

Hey cookiemuncher, you'll find her don't worry. The one that'll make you feel like a king everytime...
Bisous

It's the money loan thing that really stings.

I know this is a commercial relationship. I know this is all just fantasy.
But when you start sending me frantic requests for money I just feel like now you just see me as a sucker, and a meal ticket

Probably because I fell for it as well...

I went scorched earth on my last Esa profile just to start a fresh and "dissappear" because I kept getting so many messages from my last regular asking for money

There's no such thing as a money loan. They will just disappear or refuse to speak to you instead of paying you back or still ask for payment for the next booking.

If I learnt anything never loan a wg money, don't worry about her being upset. She will still take your next booking.

Richduck giving out real advice.

Sure we all have enough people in our real lives already asking for free money. We aren't in the purple world to add more to the list.

On 2023-03-21 19:25:56 Cookie_muncher said:
After being a member of the purple world for the past 5 years,iv realized one of the hardest things is to find a WG to keep seeing as a regular. Some guys seem to get this right, but iv really struggled. Being a super nice guy,always tip or bring a small gift (chocolate or wine) and always compliment, I can never find a girl who consistently ticks my boxes.

It's either they ask to borrow money after the 3rd visit,disappoint on a visit or just do something that spoils everything.

Does anyone else have this problem?

You're going overboard. Keep it professional. It's not a girlfriend you're courting.

Sure, you want that chemistry and a little something special but all you're doing is coming of as desperate and an easy meal ticket. Let your personalities bring the chemistry if there is any, not gifts and tips. Tip with another visit if it's a good booking and keep doing that and that's how you end up with a regular. Oh and usually regulars hold there price for you. Every regular I had has always kept the same price of the initial booking throughout the years if they wanted to keep me as a regular, even when they had a few increases and others stopped being regulars by putting up their price which is just part of the game and we move on to the next.

As far a requests for money, just give a hard no as a matter of principle. "No, sorry I can't help." is all you need to say. She'll just move on to the next easy target and you can book her whenever you feel like as Richduck said. If she's giving you attitude after that, then you know she only saw you as an easy target to get some easy money from and a simp instead of actually doing business with in the first place and so not someone you want as a regular anyway.

Hope you find your regular.

N4P

Easy, keep seeing her and soon as more is requested beyond what a session consists of, block.
Also maybe don't be so super nice. It shouts "sucker" to the sharks.