Please assist me here if you can.
So I would like to know what should I say or how should I reply.
A week ago I made plans with someone that after they come back from their holiday we would meet up spend a few days together before she heads back.
It's a day before she returns from vacation and now she says to me if I would feel bad if she changed her flight and brought it earlier then what it was as she's tired and wants to get home.
I responded with it's not a problem at all.
Now I received a text asking are you sure.
What do I say do I say yes or do I say something else
On 2023-08-01 11:13:49 Kaycee said:
Be yourself and be honest...
I run out of breath when I read your posts.
On 2023-08-01 11:25:52 Dublin said:
First of all, I think you are over-thinking it. Secondly,could you please use punctuation?
I run out of breath when I read your posts.
So what would your take on it be.
What would you suggest.
I know in a way I'm thinking to much.
Sorry about the grammar.
If you wish to continue express your dissapointment.
If you wish to end it end it.
If you wish to be trodden over again and again keep silent.
On 2023-08-01 11:30:45 FeralInstincts said:
If you play silly games you win stupid prizes.
If you wish to continue express your dissapointment.
If you wish to end it end it.
If you wish to be trodden over again and again keep silent.
Good advice .... use it or don't.
On 2023-08-01 11:20:39 Ri0 said:
On 2023-08-01 11:13:49 Kaycee said: Be yourself and be honest...
so I should say I'm not sure cause deep down I'm not okay with it cause we made plans before she left and now it's a day before and I made adjustments to my schedule to put those plans in I am a bit disappointed but she said she tired and wants to go home and I don't know if she really wants to be here with me or is this a loop hole to get away or is this a test to see if i will show that I'm feeling bad and disappointed
Best to be humble and explain your situation snd how you feel
On 2023-08-01 12:07:15 Kaycee said:
On 2023-08-01 11:20:39 Ri0 said: On 2023-08-01 11:13:49 Kaycee said: Be yourself and be honest...
so I should say I'm not sure cause deep down I'm not okay with it cause we made plans before she left and now it's a day before and I made adjustments to my schedule to put those plans in I am a bit disappointed but she said she tired and wants to go home and I don't know if she really wants to be here with me or is this a loop hole to get away or is this a test to see if i will show that I'm feeling bad and disappointed
Best to be humble and explain your situation snd how you feel
I don't mind expressing myself in that way as I'm not one to go of the top in a hurry. The only thing is if I explain myself and the she will feel I'm disappointed so then she will end up staying. I feel it needs to come from one you can't be telling people, one should know where their priority lies
On 2023-08-01 11:20:39 Ri0 said:
so I should say I'm not sure cause deep down I'm not okay with it cause we made plans before she left and now it's a day before and I made adjustments to my schedule to put those plans in I am a bit disappointed but she said she tired and wants to go home and I don't know if she really wants to be here with me or is this a loop hole to get away or is this a test to see if i will show that I'm feeling bad and disappointed
She is simply not interested, wave goodbye and cut ties. If she was interested she would not be "tired" or want to pay extra to change flights.
The are you sure is to hold herself blameless e.g you bring this up ever again the response will be but I asked you and you said its fine
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