I went punting sometime last week at a place in Sandton, did the deed. However on exiting the place I saw another lady working at the same place. She was damn fine and had to have her. Seeing her ass gave me an instant boner. I booked her right there and then and boy did I make the right decision. But I could tell that the girl that I'd been previously with seemed somewhat peeved but I told myself that this was a commercial transaction therefore no strings she can flush her emotions down the drain.

Despite what people say, emotions are never completely divorced in this business. It could be an issue of pride feeling she was not good enough that u had to book someone else

Hey on your end it was money well spent! Would be shite had you double dipped and it failed to meet expectations.

And I agree with Blaza about the emotions part only.

Ladies your response would help a great deal

It has happened to me several times. I never guilt trip myself because it is my money that I am spending.

Nothing to feel guilty about at all. But I would take a guess that the previous ladys' ego and pride took a bit of a knock. So not emotional, she surely just felt a bit shunned and that maybe she didn't satisfy you fully. Also that quite possibly you find the other lady prettier/sexier than her. Ego and jealousy.. it's a rotten thing. I wouldn't worry about it at all... That's how things go.

@Sarah, judging from the last statement from seankhu I think it's safe to assume that worrying wasn't on the cards

I don't think it should be a problem, as you already finished your appointment and fed the kitty(cash). You are after all not held to anything after you close the front door.

Maybe a little discretion as not to flaunt it.

Heck a 3sum, next time maybe just to show the lady you had not meant to hurt her pride.

Ps. The most honest compliment a man can give a woman is A hardon.

On 2017-01-03 00:22:27 Lexus said:

Ps. The most honest compliment a man can give a woman is A hardon.

Hehehe - I reckon I should dish out much more compliments this year. Ladies thrive on compliments...

Well that lady needs to toughen up because clients do that all the time especially at venues/houses. As long as you get your hours fee, leave the emotions at the gate. Clients know that they are not the first guy to book yet they don't have any issues. Even regulars, you'd be very naive to think a regular only sees you.