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Posted: 2016-12-31 13:18:54

I visited a lady from this site beginning of 2016, although the visit was lovely i never visited her again.
Ran into her at a shop yesterday. It took me a minute to realise why she looked familiar. I did not greet her because she was with a sister / friend / relative and did not want to create a possible awkward situation.
So my question...it is bound to happen that we will bump into some of the ladies, do we greet them? or do we treat them like just another fellow shopper?
Personally i don't mind saying hello but i can understand that some ladies would not want that?
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Posted: 2016-12-31 13:43:40

If you meet in a public place do not greet her, know some people will say maybe a small nod with your head (not the small one) but I say no especially if she is with someone else. The girls is like us alsa allowed a private life.
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Posted: 2016-12-31 13:47:57

Happened a couple of times with me ... i have just looked the other way to avoid any akwardness for her and me. Punting and private lifes are two different lives.
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Posted: 2016-12-31 14:31:10

Give her a hugg man!! No... I just give a quick smile
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Posted: 2016-12-31 16:49:40

For me personally... DO NOT GREET. Not even a nod or anything. It has happened where I bump into clients and they would initiate conversation. I don't like it and prefer we just ignore each other in public. The worst would be if the clients says "Hi Sarah" and obviously that is not my name... Cringe.

The privacy thing works both ways. Would you like to be approached by a SP while you are out and about? It might seem as if you're alone, but wifey of gf could possibly be in the ladies room or whatever... Being extra cautious in this industry is not a bad thing
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Posted: 2017-01-09 10:57:08

Well said Sarah, more often than not punters disregard Service Providers' privacy.
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Posted: 2017-01-09 11:14:27

Don't acknowledge me at all. Whether I'm alone or not. When I'm out doing whatever I do, I am not Nadia Bbw the WG. As Sarah says respect our privacy. Here"s the exception.... if I step into your place of business much as any other client would. Treat me as any other patron of your business.
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Posted: 2017-01-09 11:17:24

Good insight given here...thank you!

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Posted: 2017-01-09 12:39:11

We said Nadia
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Posted: 2017-01-09 15:24:23

Just cannot help myself with Nadia's post ....
Nadia personifies 'the nobility of her soul and a lady of utmost magnanimity ...'
Nadia, we first met at a house you worked at in Vlei Str KemPark. a very very long time ago)...and subsequently many times after at other venues.
I recall bumping into you a few times at public places, you played the part of a complete stranger and so did I - we chatted after and you indicated then, your take on this topic. I recall this so well.
Hats off to you, dearest Nadia. Pm me when you have a chance to chat...

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