I may generalise so please don't take offence if the shoe fits.

Sitting here reading the forum on the purple platform and pondering this question. Maybe the ladies can enlighten me. Gentleman you are also welcome to contribute.

I am a hopeless romantic at heart, so I enjoy treating whoever I see well. No, I don't fall in love with every girl I see and I am not looking for love here either, but I do sometimes feel a connection. Call it chemistry. Maybe the connection or chemistry is just in my head and maybe the feeling isn't real or shared by the other party, but sometimes it sure feels very real and shared. Am I nave to belief that sometimes there can be connection, a real connection (eyes don't lie or can they?) or am I the victim of a smooth mouth trying to secure a return visit? For example: Wow, you are so gentle and well behaved, can't wait to see you again. Next client comes in and is rough bordering disrespectful. Wow, I like it rough, can't wait to see you again.

I am fully aware that income is the aim of the game at the end of the day, but what I fail to understand is that the mind can be detached from the deed. To me it seems impossible. How? If I do not apply my mind fully, there is no way I can go through with a booking. Is it really like, ok car pulls in, mind off, go through the motions, get out, mind on. Next!

So coming back to my question; What do women want? Do they want a guy who cares a bit or is it more like buying a car? Thank you for purchasing from me now get out and see you at the next service interval unless you need dealership assistance earlier. Don't contact for any other reason.

Well all you need is find the movie by that name with Mel.Gibson,and all your questions will be answered

@Caligula. That would be fiction, but your answer gave me a good laugh. Thank you.

I Want red roses every day and breakfast in bed with coffee when I wake up.
I want to be truly loved, and appreciated.
I want to feel like your Queen when Im with you in public and behind closed doors not like your floor mat.
I want you to listen to me even if I complain about my crazy friends or the smallest things that irritate me.
I want to play games with you chess etc
I want you to kiss me like you really mean it.
Grab my but when you walking behind me.
I really want you to support and encourage me.
I want you to look at me like the first day you fell in love with me.
Lastly, I want you to realise that no matter what you go through I will always have your back!!'

I want to laugh with with you like I do like when I'm with my friends etc.

@ Lovemuff- Thankyou for asking a question has been on my mind for some time. I hope the ladies respond to this topic, as many as possible.

Well as I am a Capricorn star sign.....it means im a sexual outgoing girl...people's person!!!!! Sure all of us ladies like to be spoiled with flowers perfume you name it....but if I have to talk for myself its totally different with every single client.

As I would like to think im in charge in the room I like a little change where the client picks me up and take control....extremely sexy for me.... as far as romance goes its a service we provide but I see it as fun! No strings attached.

Still struggling to get that inyo some clients minds.....

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I must say,I'm an easy going woman

Not really jealous,and I expect the same from my partner
I haven't really had a serious problem with men apart from sex.
have been with good guys but sex has always been the issue in all my relationships.
They say I'm a bit weird,as I prefer to spice up things
I want a man that would treat me like a queen in public,but treat me like a pornstar in bed.
And i don't believe true love,but on tolarance.as long if a guy can tolerate my shit then we are cool,we will be happy.
Trust,honest and faithfulness is all I need from a man.
if u are away and feeling horny,u let me know then u have my blessings to get some pussy.As long u tell me everything in details,I'm happy.if u ever do it behind my back then u are fucked.
I love attention sometimes

Sugar, that's a serious shopping list of "wants"... not sure if LoveMuff can squeeze all that loving into one session with you! That's a tall ask!
But I feel you tho! Sometimes we need to hear it though, coz men are literal creatures, and if you don't tell me to spank your ass, don't turn around and complain that my man don't spank me and I want to be spanked! And if u like a bit of romance, ask the gentlemen to "buy you a rose, on his way home from work... " and if you want to ride his massive delectable cock, tell him when he enters in! And if he is done in two minutes, tell him you need more! And make him give you more!

@ Sugar, Sharon and Barbie. The open responses are appreciated, but I believe the point was partially missed.

@Lookingforfun. Pondering this for some time now and it's a pleasure. Here's to hoping for good responses.

@Sharon. Do I interpret your answer correctly if I say you can detach your mind completely and just call it fun? Sorry to be blunt, but in simple terms: Wham, bham, thank you mam and it's over. Not an afterthought to be spared or deemed worthy after the fact?

I will try and rephrase my questions:

1. Compliments are given regardless of whom the person is or how you were treated to try and secure future business?

2. The mind is completely detached from the deed and not an afterthought is spared. No connection is possible as it is a transaction?

3. Do the women on this site even appreciate a little effort from the punter or is effort irrelevant?