Dearest Cape Town Ladies,

I would like to flip the coin a little with a small challenge and to test the waters of Cape Town providers contributions. Why should I use my hard earned cash to see you? What is it that you bring to the party, that makes you stand out? Pickings are so rare down in the South West of the country, and pricey, so what attractive feature do you have?

Dearest JackFrost.

I know this question specifically posed to the ladies in CT.

But, a very pertinent question overall.

And profuse apologies should my post be seen as a deviation but, nobody to date has posed a very valid question like yours for us ladies to seriously take note of.

As an advertiser I ALWAYS look at the updated pics, comments and anything else on the esa platform.

I NEVER find it a waste of time nor understand those stupid people who say "get a life" simply because one is making sure to keep abreast of happenings and changes and demands in one's own workspace....In THIS case , the Purple pages.

After all, everybody here is my competition and I strive to hopefully be in the "top tier" whatever that may mean simply because I wish my "business" to be successful and for me to reap the rewards of such.

Otherwise why the fuck am I here sharing and giving unreservedly the most intimate part of myself with any Tom Dick or Harry ....and with absolute pleasure and enjoying it BUT, it is after all about the bottom line like any other job or business for NONE of us work our butts off for free.

I wonder how many ladies actually understand the power of this public platform, the power of marketing....the power of UNDERSTANDING AND DEFINING the space one occupies.....the power of BRANDING and "testimonials / reviews" NOT ONLY from gold members BUT, every client who walks across one's threshold.

A pity that only gold members reviews matter(thus not really a true reflection on services rendered by advertizers and where the actually fit in the top 100) but, an awesome esa business model on their side to generate income.

And no, no sour grapes at all. A statement of fact.

I know if I were a punter, the first thing that would catch my eye would be the pics....tooooo many that look the same though, thus would look for something different.
Then comes the communication....that little bit extra or different.

Then comes the visit.

Maybe I think too much like woman but, when a man reaches out to me no matter a message or call, what transpires gives me an idea how things shall run

And...thus I do hope the ladies realise that even though some punters gripes may seen to be out of line and may be out of line, I promise you there are worse gripes out there in the mainstream of work (ask me, i know i deal with them every day) that are no different to the shit one has to deal with in this space too.

Keep your eye in the ball.
Know who you are ....what u offer and make sure to "hook, line and ....sink" that Gent who shows interest in your business which is ...."YOU".

RB.

Honestly, if ladies would show their faces more it would help make my decision easier. I get that they are trying to protect their identity. However, there's been a couple times where a lady looks great in her photos then you get there and realise she might not just be trying to protect her identity - now I'm just soft and irritated that I wasted my time.

Agree with RB that the communication and personality is the real defining factor and you have to show that not only during the booking but before and after, and even on this website.

On 2023-11-02 15:03:07 Kaio said:
Honestly, if ladies would show their faces more it would help make my decision easier. I get that they are trying to protect their identity. However, there's been a couple times where a lady looks great in her photos then you get there and realise she might not just be trying to protect her identity - now I'm just soft and irritated that I wasted my time.

Agree with RB that the communication and personality is the real defining factor and you have to show that not only during the booking but before and after, and even on this website.

No, stop lying.

We men are visual creatures. We care deeply about what a woman looks like. We might sleep with an ugly woman, but it's not what we really want.

Women care about "personality and connection".

All men need is a place to do it.

So basically BryceK you speaking for ALL men and,can vouch for ALL of them?

Which then gives credence to what I said on

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

Yes?

RB

On 2023-11-02 16:19:18 BryceK said:

No, stop lying.

We men are visual creatures. We care deeply about what a woman looks like. We might sleep with an ugly woman, but it's not what we really want.

Women care about "personality and connection".

All men need is a place to do it.

Eish if you that simple that's okay. You are definitely not speaking for me though. Sex is in the mind and if you don't know that yet you have missed out on most of the fun.

Ms RB,

Your comments are, as always, welcome. Contrary to certain of the punters that have responded, it is definitely more than just the pics. The pics do initiate a thought, although it is not only the pics, that direct me to make a call or send a message to query services, but rather the attitude the lady shows in her photoshoot.