I'm new and wanted to try my first punt, I asked if she had recently done an std test and what the results were and she kind of freaked out on me (cancelled as well). I asked twice: topic was ignored the first time, asked a second time later and that's when it happened (I even said it's fine if she didn't). Am I the asshole?

(Don't want to go too deep into details as to not give myself away, but will answer where I can)

On 2024-01-08 16:58:19 Goobe1234 said:
I'm new and wanted to try my first punt, I asked if she had recently done an std test and what the results were and she kind of freaked out on me (cancelled as well). I asked twice: topic was ignored the first time, asked a second time later and that's when it happened (I even said it's fine if she didn't). Am I the asshole?

(Don't want to go too deep into details as to not give myself away, but will answer where I can)

Dude even if she did the test last week and it all come out neg for everything, by the time she sees you she has pomped 20 guys and she is not 100% sure of her status anymore.
If you are scared of catching something then use a condom!
and if you are still scared of catching something even with a condom then don't punt!

It's a calculated risk you are taking.

Do it, Don't do it but it is your responsibility to be safe not hers.

Most guys who ask for sti tests want bareback. You probably freaked her out as she thought you were one of those, thats probably why she ignored.

New, but joined in 2019....
You a slow starter.

(I also throughout profusely apologized and made sure to make it clear that I didn't mean any harm or bad)

On 2024-01-08 17:47:27 JiminyCricket said:
On 2024-01-08 16:58:19 Goobe1234 said: I'm new and wanted to try my first punt, I asked if she had recently done an std test and what the results were and she kind of freaked out on me (cancelled as well). I asked twice: topic was ignored the first time, asked a second time later and that's when it happened (I even said it's fine if she didn't). Am I the asshole?

(Don't want to go too deep into details as to not give myself away, but will answer where I can)

Dude even if she did the test last week and it all come out neg for everything, by the time she sees you she has pomped 20 guys and she is not 100% sure of her status anymore.
If you are scared of catching something then use a condom!
and if you are still scared of catching something even with a condom then don't punt!

It's a calculated risk you are taking.

Do it, Don't do it but it is your responsibility to be safe not hers.

I LoVE this.

BUT...with one HUGE HuGE ...HUGE change.

This one....


"....Do it, Don't do it but it is your responsibility to be safe not hers." - quoted from above


In my case I always says to those who express their concern as to std's and and and...and rightfully so. Why not?

" I care about myself more than I care about you. Now take it in the light it is meant. Meaning...my life is my treasure my all and I ain't gonna give it up for you or anybody who walks through my door. And thus...I do hope it makes you feel a little less concerned . Are we in the same boat? You treasure your life as much as i do mine?"

And no....fucking ain't the priority in my sessions but serious body to body rubs where possibilities of fluids being rubbed everywhere is .

So yes.

Do your best to be on the right side of "wrong" as much as possible.

Happy punting!

RB.

On 2024-01-08 18:05:29 Lagen said:
New, but joined in 2019....
You a slow starter.

Maybe he is finaly of age that he is allowed to have sex. We wil never know.

On 2024-01-08 18:05:29 Lagen said:
New, but joined in 2019....
You a slow starter.

He may just have been held back by this major concern of this, which is big for him (and I'm sure the same for many).

I found what helped me is to play it safe within your comfort levels. Maybe try a massage first, you may not even have to go further than that.

The safest sex is no sex. However, a life without sex is no life.

I was the lady this young man bombarded with all his questions, including the STD testing question.

Obviously there is his side and my side of the story. However, seeing that he brought up the subject: to all other 'supposedly first time punters', if you are scared of condoms bursting, STD's, sores on your mouth, etc... rather find yourself a girlfriend instead of trying the purple world.

Hopefully this young man will read my post, and will also take the advise I gave him:

In booking a working lady for some fun, there will always be a risk, so it is your responsibility as the punter, to make sure you are safe, and you put down your rules regarding what you allow, before even calling a lady for an appointment. Then you share that with the lady, so you both know what will be allowed and will be okay in a session.

I actually did share this with the young man, however, he does have the right to ask the opinion of all on this platform.

Hopefully he got clarity now.

On 2024-01-08 18:04:38 Ms Ella said:
Most guys who ask for sti tests want bareback. You probably freaked her out as she thought you were one of those, thats probably why she ignored.

Yes and he could be asking because he's worried that if a condom broke during his session with her, that he is safe..
My 5 cents spend it as u will