I want to understand why some ladies object to receiving whatsApps after hours Surely you put your phone on do not disturb when you don't want to be disturbed? Surely you use a different number for private? Please I am trying to understand the problem.

Well, would also like to understand this as I share those sentiments.

From a punter perspective, we might be browsing at night after hours. Your profile peaks out interest. We save the number as we'd like to get more info. We check the times and see that you're not working.

Then the thought is well, I can introduce myself and ask about the rates and services and she can see it and respond in the morning or whenever she's free right? No harm, no foul. At least now I have her on my radar in my WhatsApp chats and she has the potential business if her responses are in line with my expectations and we can set up an appointment after for another time.

Then reality hits and you realise you'll probably get blocked for messaging after hours so you don't. You go to bed, wake up and never remember the wg again or to go back and find her contact and message during work hours. Missed opportunity for you both. Why is this situation even a normal thing?

I mean, most companies have regular working hours and get emails etc 24/7 and simply respond during the working hours. Even ys punters get messages and mails etc out of hours and simply call back or respond when we wake up and start our day. Wgs even have separate working phones that they can switch off and put in a cupboard after work and switch on again next day but damn, this moody aggro blocking or blowing your top thing has gotta stop.

JP69

damn.. i should really talk to my union rep cus the heaux gods didn't deliver me a work phone as described above :(

Well like I just posted on private girls group.

I just cleared out my WhatsApp chat history and phone contacts yesterday.


The amount of time wasters and annoying pointless back and forth chit chat that never got to an actual booking was absolutely astounding!!

I have a very detailed profile and website. It seems atleast 80% of people that contact me don't bother to read either of the two.

It's a different story if you send me an after hour message that is detailed and I can actually discern you really are interested to book.

I always answer every single message, email, pm. Even missed calls during bookings I'll send a reminder of availability for the day. People that pre-book for days ahead I send an hour reminder on the day.

I don't ever initiate contact after bookings. I await clients to do that.

In otherwords I put a lot of fucking effort in from my side prior to an actual booking!!

However, once someone only WhatsApp "Hi, Hey, What you doing" I want sex" some don't even bother to spell that one single word right "Hie"

Or "send me your picture" "are you white" Jeezuz dude!!??. I think Photographer Ernie has done an excellent job with the 6 viewable photos on my profile. Where you can clearly see my skin is ghost white pale. Not to mention the extra 9 in my website gallery.

I now instantly block and delete. Fantastic indicator of a time waster with no actual intention to book. So I have gathered from going through entire chat history.

Look, we run a business. We indicate our working hours and what we offer and dont.

We answer alot of messages and calls within a day. 7/10 are guys that are bored and just playing for time.

On 2024-02-21 10:58:02 Miss Fleur said:
Well like I just posted on private girls group.

I just cleared out my WhatsApp chat history and phone contacts yesterday.


The amount of time wasters and annoying pointless back and forth chit chat that never got to an actual booking was absolutely astounding!!

I have a very detailed profile and website. It seems atleast 80% of people that contact me don't bother to read either of the two.

It's a different story if you send me an after hour message that is detailed and I can actually discern you really are interested to book.

I always answer every single message, email, pm. Even missed calls during bookings I'll send a reminder of availability for the day. People that pre-book for days ahead I send an hour reminder on the day.

I don't ever initiate contact after bookings. I await clients to do that.

In otherwords I put a lot of fucking effort in from my side prior to an actual booking!!

However, once someone only WhatsApp "Hi, Hey, What you doing" I want sex" some don't even bother to spell that one single word right "Hie"

Or "send me your picture" "are you white" Jeezuz dude!!??. I think Photographer Ernie has done an excellent job with the 6 viewable photos on my profile. Where you can clearly see my skin is ghost white pale. Not to mention the extra 9 in my website gallery.

I now instantly block and delete. Fantastic indicator of a time waster with no actual intention to book. So I have gathered from going through entire chat history.

Look, we run a business. We indicate our working hours and what we offer and dont.

We answer alot of messages and calls within a day. 7/10 are guys that are bored and just playing for time.

I take my punting very serious so I am not bored I am checking to see if we click before the booking.

Obtw you do look stunning wowzer.

I'm guilty of blocking late callers and messagers because:

I have a dual SIM phone.
I use business WhatsApp for work registered on my work number that is on my ad.
Turning off app notifications becomes a shlep when you forget to turn them back on again in the morning and not all of us have an extra R3k laying around for a decent phone that will allow you to use WhatsApp and make calls without the phone freezing every 2 seconds...
I also cannot just turn on 'dnd' or put my phone on silent incase I miss private emergency calls.
(It's an android, not an iPhone).

When I am at work, I have set an automated message to greet you and tell you that I'll respond ASAP because I may not be available at the time you messaged me but can respond when I am available again.
After hours I set my message to tell you that I am not available and to tell you what my working hours are.
I also set my status to let you know if I am at work and when I will be available again.

Some men do not even take the time to read a lady's working hours on ESA, flat out ignore the business hours you send via messages and don't read your business hours posted on WhatsApp.
They then call between 8pm and 4am or message non stop as if we don't have lives outside our work, a family to take care of, spouses or any other responsibilities whatsoever.
They expect that you can just jump to give them an appointment because they will pay for it... (Maybe).

Some guys also think that this is a dating site, chat site or FWB type of thing (tinder) where they can take you out for supper, movies, chat like long lost buddies, whatever, and think that you are lonely or desparate enough for free sex with a random stranger, have all the time in the world to entertain them or that you need the money that bad to drop everything else and just see them. (Again, if they even pay you).

In my experience it's only "dodgy" clients contacting you late at night and this is why you'll get blocked by most ladies.
We don't know if your drunk, high, going to rob us, rape us, pay us, etc. and for those reasons most ladies use venues during day time for safety from the dodgy guys.
We get way less difficult clients during the day time at a safe establishment than meeting up with some random at a hotel late at night or going into unknown areas.

I will always respond asap or in the morning if you contacted me at a decent time after hours (before 8pm), but call me or message me non stop and give me attitude as if I owe you a booking after hours or on a day I don't work and then have the nerve to ask me, "oh, so you don't need the money?" - I will block you, period. I also have a life. I'm also a human being. We work the hours that we can.

This is a business like any other and although there are some ladies prepared to help you at odd times of the night, at least take the time to read her hours on her profile and respect that she has a life outside her job just as you do.
I don't think it's appropriate or considerate to contact any lady after 8pm unless her profile states that she works those hours or that she is available 24/7 for bookings.

Thank you @KICKASS you welcome to message and come through ;)

They just need to switch their work phone off. Simple comme bonjour!

Wow, every punter (far more than wgs) is supposed to get a punting SIM and phone for something they do occasionally but a wg that is doing it as their business everyday can't get a separate phone for her own business. My Gosh! Shows how seriously they take their business.

And evening callers are time wasters. No mam, punters also work in the day and have free time at night so they can browse and find out info when they free. There's a reason the term "ladies of the night" came about... That's actually the core time of this business.

JP69

Most girls have one phone with two simcards. One is for work the other one is for private.
I respond to every whatsapp message.
But here is the problem
A guy wil message. Baby im so horny right now. Im busy playing with myself. There and then u know this is a timewasting wanker
Then u get guys. Ask a million questions then when u ask him would u like to come through then he replies i wil see u in two weeks time when im In the area. This wil be at 2 in tue morning.
There are so many more reasons

So maybe the punters need to sort each other out cause it looks like its always us girls thats in the wrong with everything if you cant get your way.