Hey guys

Let me say today my life changed. It may not be that bad as some other experiences but for me it's was pretty scary.

I live in the vaal so we don't get alot of ESA girls here.so I look at the blue site. Found a girl I liked the look of,I gave her a call. She worked from a guesthouse so I said ok. I get there she Def didn't look like her pics. Any my dick new something was wrong and he didn't want to work. So she said ok she will blow me so she blew me. I told her I was Cumming and a lil went in her mouth and then she got all agro saying I have to pay extrA for that. Another older lady all of a sudden was in the room and she took my car keys away. They started demanding 5k an immediate EFT. I tried negotiating but they were ganging up on me and honestly I didn't know if anyone else was outside ready to come in and things could get worse. I paid it and got the hell out of there. It's still fresh and I am so upset. That experience is going to keep me from punting for a bit.i know it won't be forever but guys we have to be so careful out there.

On 2026-02-12 12:36:10 Sanjay.sing911 said:
Hey guys

Let me say today my life changed. It may not be that bad as some other experiences but for me it's was pretty scary.

I live in the vaal so we don't get alot of ESA girls here.so I look at the blue site. Found a girl I liked the look of,I gave her a call. She worked from a guesthouse so I said ok. I get there she Def didn't look like her pics. Any my dick new something was wrong and he didn't want to work. So she said ok she will blow me so she blew me. I told her I was Cumming and a lil went in her mouth and then she got all agro saying I have to pay extrA for that. Another older lady all of a sudden was in the room and she took my car keys away. They started demanding 5k an immediate EFT. I tried negotiating but they were ganging up on me and honestly I didn't know if anyone else was outside ready to come in and things could get worse. I paid it and got the hell out of there. It's still fresh and I am so upset. That experience is going to keep me from punting for a bit.i know it won't be forever but guys we have to be so careful out there.

Wtf dude is she on esa if yes post her details plz. Sorry u had to go thru this bullshit.

No she isn't on ESA. She is only on the blue site. Now you know how valuable ESA ratings and reviews are so you can avoid bs like what I experienced

The reason I don't use those other sites is because you can't air out your grievance, and you can't warn other people, you can't name and shame. I think that's why alot of these scammers advertise there coz nobody would know how bad they are. I've met catfishes whilst using those sites hence why ESA is the best. Stick to ESA. I get your frustration of staying far from where all the best ladies are, trust me I stay in a different province (it's dry here) but the drive to Sandton, Rosebank or any of those parts of Joburg is worth the experience.

On 2026-02-12 12:55:04 Sanjay.sing911 said:
No she isn't on ESA. She is only on the blue site. Now you know how valuable ESA ratings and reviews are so you can avoid bs like what I experienced

I have used this platform since I was born hence I dont go looking at other sites I have never been scammed using this site.

I honestly would've punched my way out of that situation. They will learn quickly.

R5K is a heavy price to pay for CIM. Damn, that's an expensive lesson. You'd rather stick to ESA where possible, read the reviews and comments properly, make a formal booking and travel to Joburg when you can. If it's not lined up through an established platform with proper punter engagement, you'd honestly rather just sort yourself out at home. Safer, cheaper and far less drama.

Thanks for the comments guys. Huge lesson learned. The recommendations are valid and wise. The only way going forward

I agree. That kite will not fly. I will cause so much shit on the spot they will end up paying me to stop.

On 2026-02-12 13:08:32 henrygum said:
I honestly would've punched my way out of that situation. They will learn quickly.

On 2026-02-12 14:38:34 Griffindude said:
I agree. That kite will not fly. I will cause so much shit on the spot they will end up paying me to stop.

On 2026-02-12 13:08:32 henrygum said: I honestly would've punched my way out of that situation. They will learn quickly.

I would love see that.

How about knocking on my door. Please?

:)


RB.