Have you ever booked a lady but told yourself you'll never book again because the experience was underwhelming and certain services were excluded from your experience with her.

Then you read new reviews and ask yourself, did we go to the same girl? You'll read reviews and punter would be like "the OWO was amazing" and I'm like "she does that?, I didn't get that. I didn't even know it was an option". Or the review would say "we had two amazing rounds" and I'm like "2!!? She was already getting dressed after my first round in an hour booking"...or a review would say "after an amazing massage,she rode me" and I'm like "wait, the massage girl fucked you, she just gave me a hand job. I didn't know there was an option to fuck". Or even "she charged me R1000" and I'm like "R1000??? She charged me R1500"

Lol I know there are people who will say "you were probably disrespectful or unhygienic" as reasons for not getting the best of her but that's never the case. It's fascinating that we pay the same rate (lol sometimes) but get different services from the same lady.

Each client is different. The chemistry between you and Mary, maybe different from Mary and Joe.

Its not always about the hygiene. Its how u click with a girl. Bring your a game.

Ultimately it is not just a business despite what some people seem to think. There is a basic service that will be provided and the rest is going to depend on connection.

It happens to everyone and it is why one has a regular.

On 2025-12-13 07:20:14 slick70 said:
Its how u click with a girl. Bring your a game.

I hear you slick and I understand your point. However I'll make an example with one of my favourite WG, her Ad is currently off so I won't mention her name. This particular WG, me and her have zero chemistry, like zero. She has a very standoffish personality, rude at times. And I've tried to warm up to her, create small talk ect and it has never worked. I remember when I first met her, I thought, this is going to be a horrible experience. Then I took off my pants and she sucked me like there's no tomorrow and gave me the most memorable sexual experience of my life.

I booked her again and still no chemistry but when it comes to the service that lady goes all out. She doesn't have to like you, or find you attractive or have chemistry with you, but she will give you a 100% when it comes to her service.

Like we don't have to have chemistry for you to give great service (we are not dating). I'm literally a stranger and I only have an hour of your time.

@Bongane, i hear you man...2 that stand out for me are these 2 Asians.. Yaya in SeaPoint and Mimi.

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Years back Yaya always had awesome reviews from reliable punters, with great service. A reliable punter recommended her, but my 1 experience with her was very average,...she has skills yes, but disinterest and mechanical service. I see her latest reviews now reflect that.

Mimi is the opposite, when she first started (about 5 years ago) she consistently had great reviews, but over the last few years guys are commenting on her attitude , but my 3 visits to her have been awesome and she was very playful and obliging.

Yes my man, we have experienced exactly that. Fresh on this site many moons ago, this was a common occurrence where it had me questioning myself on what I did wrong that I didn't get that. It took a couple years to realize that pretty much most of those reviews were selfie reviews 90% of the time.

Also that it standard practice of the wg to come after a REAL review that was negative and say those two thing you mentioned, hygiene and disrespectful. Hell, I used to even believe that and think "Well, that's why he got shitty service and he deserves it." I even used to use punter profile age and post count and think no way a lady would run a fake account for years or pay Gold membership for them but I learnt they do indeed. Search all their posts and you'll quickly realize it's a wg from what they're posting.

You left out "wanted raw" and the new one coming along "he couldn't get hard" when they intentionally make service so bad that you can't get turned on so you just leave early without them having to deliver any service after getting paid. It's all a scam bro.

Indeed there's the chemistry aspect which will have her breaking all rules a small percentage of the time or one or two clients receive because she knows they're popular or will simp and defend her when the negative reviews come but that is not the standard. Your underwhelming experience is the standard.

JP69

On 2025-12-13 08:32:28 Mr Naai-er said:
@Bongane, i hear you man...2 that stand out for me are these 2 Asians.. Yaya in SeaPoint and Mimi.

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Two perfect examples of the above.

If you look up these punters, you will find some well known reputable punters like EthanH and Mr Naaier that have had negative experiences. This is the true and reliable experience.

Then you will find a host of positive reviews for tons of wgs from the others, even for some wgs you have probably visited yourself and know it's miles apart from your experience or even looks from known fake accounts like Gibs1, Kieran89, and Theand etc. It's not even selfies but guys getting paid for fake reviews with cold cash or freebies so keep your wits about you when reading reviews.

Hope this explains.

JP69

On 2025-12-13 06:44:25 Bonganelovejoy said:


Then you read new reviews and ask yourself, did we go to the same girl? You'll read reviews and punter would be like "the OWO was amazing" and I'm like "she does that?, I didn't get that. I didn't even know it was an option". Or the review would say "we had two amazing rounds" and I'm like "2!!? She was already getting dressed after my first round in an hour booking"...or a review would say "after an amazing massage,she rode me" and I'm like "wait, the massage girl fucked you, she just gave me a hand job. I didn't know there was an option to fuck". Or even "she charged me R1000" and I'm like "R1000??? She charged me R1500"

The truth has never been this funny. Hahaha. Thanks for the laugh Bongani.

Same reaction for sure with punters who dates working girls after reading a review.

I think its even worse for guys who plays sugar daddy.
Only differance is he wil never know.

"Same girl, same rate, different experiences"

You're missing one more variable there.

The punter.

Unfortunately, most SPs deliver different services depending on the client. Very few are real professionals who are skilled at pleasuring different men.

And whilst chemistry matters, it's not the only thing that matters.

I've had mediocre sex with SPs I had chemistry with when they were delivering PSE-levels of service to other clients they did not have chemistry with.

The difference? Those gents took control of their sessions and requested the most (within the SPs boundaries).

Sometimes you need to lead or else the SP will just do the bare minimum.

On 2025-12-13 13:10:55 ProdigalPunter said:
"Same girl, same rate, different experiences"

You're missing one more variable there.

The punter.

Unfortunately, most SPs deliver different services depending on the client. Very few are real professionals who are skilled at pleasuring different men.

And whilst chemistry matters, it's not the only thing that matters.

I've had mediocre sex with SPs I had chemistry with when they were delivering PSE-levels of service to other clients they did not have chemistry with.

The difference? Those gents took control of their sessions and requested the most (within the SPs boundaries).

Sometimes you need to lead or else the SP will just do the bare minimum.

Valid!!!