I'm not sure if any of you have experienced the following.

I won't be saying who the individual is, but I hope she sees this post.

1. Saw a nice looking WG in a posh area.
2. Me being curious messaged her and asked her her rates.
3. She sends it and it's out of my budget and I kindly let her know that - and that I'm explicitly looking for GFE/FH.
4. She responds and asks "how much do you normally pay" with an excited emoji.
5. I tell her normally it's half of the price. - side comment, her price is probably that high because of the posh area.
6. Her response "You're kidding! They must be desperate. My massage is 900."
7. My response is I have people I normally book with for that price, but I'm just looking around at possible new talent and that money is money and something is better than nothing.
8. Her response in a voice note: "Listen you must be mad, honestly my massage is normally that price and you want me to do FH for that price, good luck but that's not going to work for me".

I'm so confused and shocked.

Well I guess a lot of girls on this site is then "desperate" according to this individual.

If you don't want to mention the service provider. At least tell us the area. So we have some sort of idea?

Firstly, I really don't see what is so awful about that. Secondly, it doesn't sound like you had a booking. So it could not have been an 'awful booking experience'.

You have different ideas of what value for what price. That's it. Nothing awful about that.

Just because some SP's have lower rates, it's not because their is desperate. One uses a guideline as to the state of the current economy, the average price in the area, and what you as a SP are comfortable charging.
One the flipside, there are times when one has to refuse a low offer, bcs allot of the time SP's have to pay for the "venue/room/house" they work from.
I'm sure the WG mentioned in this thread is super hot and offers an amazing service, therefore she can ask more.

This is why I don't even entertain the conversation further after I get a price way more than what I think it's worth. Say "Thanks" and leave it at that. No need to tell her about your budget range etc. You may think she'll see it from your POV with your comparisons but she's seeing it from her POV with her current bookings as her comparisons.

You have a difference in opinion and that's that. Check the next one and the next until you match.

N4P

Not a very useful post, I can't even work out what your point is?

On 2024-12-06 09:57:16 Gretchen said:
Just because some SP's have lower rates, it's not because their is desperate. One uses a guideline as to the state of the current economy, the average price in the area, and what you as a SP are comfortable charging.
One the flipside, there are times when one has to refuse a low offer, bcs allot of the time SP's have to pay for the "venue/room/house" they work from.
I'm sure the WG mentioned in this thread is super hot and offers an amazing service, therefore she can ask more.

Exactly. Everyone has their own need and operating model. No need to diss anyone. 1 might be fine with two R5k bookings a week and manages to get two punters a week. Another might need to pay boarding and lodging daily and is fine getting 5 guys a day at R800 each and it works. Another might be just needed R300 now for lunch and getting that R300 right now works for her. Everyone has their own circumstances. We're not here to judge but support. Just support where you think you get fair value and move along where you don't and that goes for punters and wgs.

N4P

On 2024-12-06 10:04:06 Mike Hope said:
Not a very useful post, I can't even work out what your point is?

He's upset that her desperate comment came out as derogatory and rude and needed to vent.

N4P

Sounds like you could not pay her rate and tried to barter.

She has a right to refuse and have opinions

You can"t buy mince at checkers but tell them you will have a fillet at mince meat price!!!!
Because thats all you can afford. The store will tell you to sling your hook...

Move on to ladies that are happy with your budget it is that simple....

@ Xcix. I see nothing wrong with you politely informing the lady know that her rates are out of your price bracket, at least she has knows why she isn't getting your bussiness. There was no need for her to insult other ladies or you for that matter.