So i keep a mental black book of which ladies can meet the budget from time to time. Then i forget. For example ladies in the r700hr or R1200 bracket where are they located. I sometines spend more time requesting rates than i do booking. On average the calls can take upto 45min enquiring. Sometimes you go through 15 profiles.Valuable punting time lost. Would knowing the rates upfront be easier ?

Ya it would work well if you could search according to rates

Man being saying this for a while.. it's a win win for everyone. Punters won't have to make unnecessary calls trying to find out if WG are within their budget and WG won't have to deal with so many unnecessary calls requesting rates.

What helps a lot is WG having clear description of service and rates on WhatsApp to minimise back and forth.

This is why I enquire rates via WhatsApp beforehand when I see a profile and save the name with the area. The chats stay making it easier to go straight to booking when you have that are available punting time. I also try to get location or at least close enough landmark so I can even check how long it will take before locking in a booking. Then when you have a rare gap, you just need to confirm availability, and reconfirm already discussed rates and you can say, "see you at X o',clock".

There's been weird caveats lately though:

1. Some ladies for God knows what reason, delete the rates after you enquired. So now you find a gap and go check your chats and gone so she's off your list because time is precious and you can't be spending valuable punting time starting an enquiry from scratch and she might take hours to reply and your punting window is gone. And then she deletes it again and you lose a booking next time again on the same circus. So you have to move on to the next chat on your list with a decent wg and pricing.

2. They suddenly got you with pricing gone up. Many times the pricing they gave you is just right to you for who they are and what they offer. Sometimes,you might even think maybe R100 too much for the offer but you'll make a concession since it's only just overpriced for the offering. Then you confirm availability and ask if the rate and services discussed is correct and she says it R100, R200, R400 more. Then your mind goes into at this new rate, you rather book so and so who's way better for the same or you rather go to so and so who's at the rate you expected to pay and you start from square one. And often, you've already waited 10-15 minutes for her to confirm availability and then another to confirm price or you might even wait an hour or two thinking you definitely punting her based on the last chat and that directly eats into your punting time.

3. Wg is in certain areas but not at time of booking. Many times we can only get to a spot at a certain time and Murphy's law, the wg has moved to another area when you have the opportunity to go there. I can't even count the amount of times I actually saw a wg available in my area and rush to get my work done to clear a gap, shower shave and go check ESA to find out what time she's available, only she's now moved to another area I won't be able to get to is shocking.

By the time you go through the process with the next one, you time is gone and you got a meeting coming up or the wife is coming home or you gotta pick the kids from school or some other emergency and it just doesn't happen so it's hell frustrating. Miss the 2015 era when you call a wg for a booking now and they are available and at the same spot 90% of the time. Now it's harder than trying to organize a freebie hookup from an app.

JP69

It must be irritating for ladies to be ghosted once someone hears their rates and no reponse.

On 2026-07-19 08:18:53 GTR9000 said:
It must be irritating for ladies to be ghosted once someone hears their rates and no reponse.

I would think it quite normal for people to get prices of things they want first and I don't ghost them. I let them know up front that I'm finding out so I can plan when I'm available. I thank them for their time at the end and let them know I'm not interested if I don't like their rates and services offering and I also let them know that I will contact them when I'm available if I like what I hear. I mean the whole point of enquiring is that I'm interested and want to book her. It's just a matter of when it's possible really and if she does all the things I like and if it's worth it.

But on that point, if a girl does get ghosted straight after sharing rates over and over, it's a clear message on it's own that the rates are too high for the offering or the offering isn't enough for the rates.

JP69

99% of SPs think you are a time waster if you enquire (for future reference) and dont book. Some even block you.

On 2026-07-19 08:18:53 GTR9000 said:
It must be irritating for ladies to be ghosted once someone hears their rates and there's no response.

I doubt it.
Value is subjective.
I charge R1,500 per hour. It's usually a slow massage with no full service or related offerings.

Naturally, the average enquiry doesn't convert into a booking.
People make calculations such as:
I can get a younger, more attractive practitioner for less.
I can get laid for less.

Those comparisons are filtered through their own priorities and limited frame of reference.
Most providers price their services according to what they know they can realistically sell.

Potential clients aren't privy to every factor that influences a rate.
The question I ask before setting my price is simple: Is this profitable enough to justify my investment of time, energy, and expertise?

Sometimes the answer for the client is no. That's perfectly acceptable.
From my understanding of the business, a 50% conversion rate is healthy. An 80--100% conversion rate in this line of work would eventually lead to burnout or declining standards.

I can't speak for everyone, but that's how I understand my career.
We're not peddling a product with an objective shelf life. The service is there when the right client is ready. If there's no sale today, that's fine.
So no, I don't find it irritating.

Thats the big problem with the ladies.. Some act like if you dont book right now after enquiry they will hold a knife on your throat..

There is a lot of things which should match together to make a booking.. Other than the preference of ladies, The rates, the services being offerd, the distance you would
like to pass through.. Compare the rates with the services etc..

& when you go to a store or for shopping you can just have a look to plan what you can buy in future, & u can come out with empty hands but the owner is Not complaining.

On 2026-07-19 09:48:48 Vrik said:
99% of SPs think you are a time waster if you enquire (for future reference) and dont book. Some even block you.

I do all my bookings that way so I don't know about 99%. I never book in advance because my life and my body doesn't allow me to.

I don't know when I'm gonna get a gap AND be horny. It's not like I can tell my girlfriend "I can't fuck you now because I made an appointment last week so fuck so and so in an hours time". I have to work around my work schedule, my kids schedule, and my girlfriends schedule which is already rather time consuming. So the stars have to align when I don't have work or had a cancellation, and my kids have something to do that doesn't involve my presence, and I'm not with my girlfriend and about to fuck or have just fucked so I'm definitely not horny and in the mood to waste money fucking an uglier chick that does less. It has to be a time when I'm actually free, have not had sex in a day or two so I'm probably horny and I'm not about to have sex again to same day/night where I would rather spend that energy on having a much better time.
And then on the time that it finally happens,cto find a wg that is available at the same time is already quite difficult. Now through into the mix that I start from ground zero of finding out all the information and then having to make the decision and possibly having to find out form another and another. I will probably never get to punt if I don't get the information before hand.

It will be like cycle of constantly enquiring and then losing the opportunity all together while trying to get the information while that window closes and then something the next Tim and that is time wasting for both me and the wg.

Its not like any different purchase/spend. We go to or research different places and prices and then decide and we we ready to purchase, go go purchase the one we decided on. And also, when we already have the prices like from a Google search or wherever, then when we want that product, we go straight to the one that we know is most suitable because we already had the information.

There's definitely are some wgs that get upset and even block as you say. It's rather stupid and immature as all they're doing is losing future business. Just blike they could be in a booking or watching a movie with their kids and unavailable to the punter when he calls and wants a booking, punters also have things to do and can't come over right away because she's available at that moment.

JP69