The other day I read a review where the guy actually had a problem with a lady asking him to leave a review. That kinda took me by suprise. But thought okay maybe it is just because he did not enjoy his session as his review was not flattering at all. Maybe he would have felt different about the request if he was over the moon with the session.

So come yesterday saw a client maybe for the 10th or 12th time he has never reviewed, although I was the one that introduced him to ESA, so me being me asked.. so how come you never left a review.. and the answer ..you never asked;)

I was like ok, so you only review those that ask.? His answer yes. I was dumb struck.

So one guy has a wobble because a lady asked another guy only reviews if asked.

So this morning I had a chat with another SP about this and this is our conclusion.

Seems we ladies f...d if we do and f...d if we don't.;)

Now would guys please share you opinion.

I only want a yes or no.

Should ladies ask or not?

I want this thread to run for a week or so and then count and see what the results are.

Help us ladies to do the right thing;)

My opinion:-

To be review is a "privledge" and not an entitlement.

Nobody can be forced to do a review.

Asking is free, and I can't see why some would get upset about it, but then to qualify this. There is "asking" and "demanding", the latter pisses me off as well.

Yes, I only review when asked

Could not agree more with Kooni. Been to multiple sessions where the WG asks you to review her while sitting there

@kooni..

I don't disagree.

How you ask or say something will definitely be a factor in how it is recieve or viewed as in all aspects of life.

And we all know it is a privilege and no one should feel obliged to to it.

Let's pretend all ladies are perfect and have impeccable manners and all guys are perfect and have impecacable manners and none suffer from entitlement issues or any other
character flaws, just for a second let's pretend, and forget about all the other things that might have a influence.

My question still is..

Should ladies ask or not?

Yes or no.

On 2022-02-16 15:25:23 shaungovender said:
Yes, I only review when asked

Do you think there are ladies that you would have liked to have left reviews for if they did ask.? Have you never reviewed a lady just because you wanted to, regardless whether she asked or not?

No.
A lady shouldn't have to ask! It is only polite to do a review after a session. Good or bad!!

On 2022-02-16 15:30:38 peterb said:
Could not agree more with Kooni. Been to multiple sessions where the WG asks you to review her while sitting there

That's a bit pushy to say the least..

But question still remains..

Should ladies ask or not?

On 2022-02-16 15:25:23 shaungovender said: Yes, I only review when asked

Do you think there are ladies that you would have liked to have left reviews for if they did ask.? Have you never reviewed a lady just because you wanted to, regardless whether she asked or not?

Now that you brought this up it makes me to wonder but no,i never reviewed a lady because I just wanted to,always review when requested,on the contrary there are some who asked me not to review but that's another discussion for another thread

Yes they can
Yes they might as well
Must is a bit strong.
If my review matters, and she feels she needs some positive feedback, she should feel free and gentlemen should happily do as requested.
This way reviews matter.