Just another question in the same vein as the quick question started by Midnight Express
I have not had really bad experiences in this business besides being short paid here and there and then a no-show now and then. How would you prefer to be let down If I pick up that we will not get along or if for whatever reason, I don't want to see you? I often just say I am fully booked but then the guy phones back another day. Do I just block? Or just say sorry, our energies just don't gel? Do I let you come and hope for the best? My gut instinct is almost always spot on. A few weeks ago I had such a case. I knew I should have said no.The guy and I just didn't click AT ALL. He was kind of irritated with me cos I kept on wanting to move.(it is what I need to cum, but hey it wasn't about me cumming). He wanted me to lay deadstill. Nothing wrong with that. Thing is I had that feels we wouldn't click Should I have turned down the booking? What should I have said if he asked why I declined? Should I just have said I'll call you back in a minute and just blocked him?
This doesn't happen very often but every time I had that feeling, the booking didn't go down well, no fault of either of us.

Nadia....from my side....

Just tell the guy:" Please do not contact me again, I do not want to do a booking with you" Those exact words.

I believe it is best to be honest about those kind of things. Sure....the guy will be upset if he really wanted to see you, but at leist he knows where he stands and can move on to someone else ( or stalk you).

Honesty is always the best policy, tell him no, you dont think we will fit and you dont want to take the booking just because its a booking, you can then wish him well and hope he finds that someone he can make the booking with

Jake

Thanks guys. It's easy if someone nis rude or too young, or wants services I don't provide, that's a block.
But when a guy sounds pleasant enough or there's nothing obviously wrong, that's a bit more tricky. Sometimes it's just his energy doesn't sit well with mine. And no matter how hard we both try, there just isn't a vibe. I could have rather turned him down and his money may have been better spent elsewhere. It also gets me a bit edgy when I can see I should have said no. As I said neither of us did anything wrong.

Also believe honesty the best policy..

Yesterday had a gentleman that wanted to book..enquiries done, sounds like an amazing guy to spend am all night with. We agreed to confirm a bit later as he was out with colleagues.

Later he is on the line again . Honestly telling me he "kuiered" a bit. I was ok with the fact that he had a drink until 3/4 messages in I realise he is more than a bit gekuier.

So I kindly declined the booking , telling him I personally think he is a bit to gekuiered to me liking and told him to go rest am contact me another time. He atleast in end agreed that I was right.

One he would have wasted his money, he would have been passed out or two he would have become one of those difficult drunks that meant I was gonna have a hard time with him and might end up kicking him out anyway.

I do not feel bad about doing that or sad about loosing out on that money, I know myself and this would not have gone well.

I'm too polite, I usually just ignore... or if they call with another number I will make an excuse... Maybe I should think of a better way to tackle this situation.

You don't have to chase him away just because you can't click with him, He is click with you

I think it depends why.Maybe if you tell him the reason he can correct the issue if possible. With it being tough times the ladies should try and help make a booking more pleaseant. Sometimes the client is not aware of the problem. Misunderstandings happen. Give the client a chance to fix the issue. I agree honesty and dealing with the issue with kindness goes a long way

In the past i used to save their numbers and memorise their voices, and was always making excuses that i can't see them, but would not tell them why.

I remember one gent met me by accident at a Spar, and begged me to tell him why i would not see him again as he tried to secure a booking for over 8months ...then i told him the truth.....he was quite surprised, and he said i should have told him earlier .....and after that he was forgiven and now he is better client.

Nowdays, i make sure the session end nicely but the next day i tell them, and it actually helped few to rectify their mistakes/bad behaviour/bad hygiene....and more....

Personally I would appreciate a quick honest response - I don't think we would enjoy each other's company.

Granted - some guys would demand more information and then you can block.