So many of us overshare on this site and I personally believe that it is because it is a safe space to express some of the most authentic parts of ourselves.

When I look in the mirror, I get shocked because I know the man I am and then I'm like, oh shit, you're still in this body. But I no longer let that debilitate me. I celebrate myself as I am and work with what I have.

So I feel I understand a lot of punters... you long to be touched and celebrated for that other side of you. The side you may not show the rest of the world. Or the side of you, that you feel you really are. You get to be whoever you want and even if it is just for an hour, you will be adored and taken into another world... the world you always dreamed of.

This post is not to upsell myself or to market myself. It's just my daily reflection.

I get it. I see you <3

I feel like Raphael is my truest form, my own fantasy of me and I kinda like him. I get to live out all the best parts of myself in a session and I genuinely appreciate this industry. The tremendous amount of healing and self acceptance it has brought me. Plus I've gotten to pull back so many layers and discover so many different kinks that I love.

So maybe this is an appreciation post or something.

But I find being real and authentic incredibly sexy. I find speaking and living your truth to be incredibly sexy.

Sending all of you so much love and multiple orgasms today.

xxx
Raphael

I just love to read your take on life. I think you have a very honest outlook on things cos you have had to look further than the shell of your persona as you are morphing into the you you are and the you you are growing towards.

On 2022-03-30 11:46:11 Bbw Nadia said:
I just love to read your take on life. I think you have a very honest outlook on things cos you have had to look further than the shell of your persona as you are morphing into the you you are and the you you are growing towards.

Thank you <3 This is true.

I just was thinking to myself that for 28years all I wanted was to be held, to be touched, to be yearned without being stripped of who I am. I would always pursue others according my level of comfort.

But now I get to be pursued because people see me and genuinely want to experience me.

So when a client comes in, I take myself out of my body and I take them out of their body.

I no longer see bodies.

I see people and I know that the very thing I always wanted, other people want too.

I told my one client that he is very sexy and he told me that no one has ever told him that ever before.

I felt that.

He is well into his 70s and not once has he been told that he is sexy.

I think that we choose people based on what we think we deserve and here we choose people based on who we feel we really are.

Deep down there is that sexy wild and wonderful person.

I see all of you.

I can only say well done!!! That, your, honesty and truth is very rare within this clock and dagger industry. I admire you for the courage and open mindedness that you have.
Less fighting and bitchyness, more acceptance and love all around.
Just my 2 cents worth.
PS.... would love to have a coffee and chat with you one day.

On 2022-03-30 12:09:55 gunts said:
I can only say well done!!! That, your, honesty and truth is very rare within this clock and dagger industry. I admire you for the courage and open mindedness that you have.
Less fighting and bitchyness, more acceptance and love all around.
Just my 2 cents worth.
PS.... would love to have a coffee and chat with you one day.

@gunts thank you, I really appreciate it. Yes let's do a coffee.

From the very first moment you stepped onto this platform very new very insecure and very much the unicorn I knew you were going places.

Today's post just proves that again.

Us service providers do not always appreciate the vulnerability and trust that gets laid at our feet. It takes a lot of soul searching and a lot of time to take that step and pick a service provider to be vulnerable with especially when your fantasies or kink are the kind that you do not and cannot reveal in your daily life.

And the best service providers for such trust and volnarabilty is someone that either understands it from a view and understanding through their own challenges or someone that has the compassion passion and ability to let people feel free and safe while exploring.

You my dear Raphael is so very much set up to become one of the best SPs around because you are living your real life while helping others explore theirs.

Xxx
L

On 2022-03-30 13:03:17 Miss Red (aka Louise) said:
you are living your real life while helping others explore theirs.

Xxx
L

This part <3 Thank you for rooting for me since day 1.

Guys I appreciate everyone very much. Although this post was mostly supposed to be about how connected I feel we all are. How relatable we are and that ultimately, I just feel we are no different.

Some a little more in tune. But the core and the essence are the same, no matter how we articulate that.