I hope that I'm not stepping on toes here. But a few years ago, when they banned the SPs off to do promos on their own platform it definitely lessened the traffic here.

But with the influx of (new) punters (welcome, welcome!), then it seems like the forum is filled with "Need a big ebony ass girl. DM me" or "my dick is hard, any petite brunette want to give it some work. DM me"

What happened to punters going through the site hunting and finally getting a pick of their lady?

Maybe I'm too old school. Plus, I hear that none of these punters actually book. And you can see how they go quiete/never reply once posting a fishing thread for recommendations.

So, it might be time to have "recommendations/requests" section separately. But how would that leave the forum? Since the sport is now to ridicule other people's kinks?

To be fair there's a thread along the lines of "...punter states what he wants and SP responds..."

But ja some of the request posts are ridiculous; "looking for ebony + GFE".

Nah dude, do some fucking work.

Shadow, I've said that maybe I'm too old school on too many posts and I'm starting to lose count.

At some point I thought that the ladies are asking punters not to review them because we are asked for guidance and recommendations and do our best to point the new guys in the right direction, but it seems it's a thankless task. And I'm not looking to get my ego stroked, but pay it forward by writing reviews and writing on walls where necessary, whether it's to praise or warn other punters of danger. The former also boosts business for ladies if the service is great.

My 2 cents.

On 2026-01-19 00:23:05 Sir Shadow Hefner said:


But ja some of the request posts are ridiculous; "looking for ebony + GFE".

Doing it this way they have someone to blame when their "huge cock" doesn't get hard. "Some doos recommended this girl"

Guys dont want to book anyone if they dont get a referral from someone else. Pathetic actually....but ja....here we are.

A lot of these requests are just girls posting with burner accounts to get exposure in the main forum since they can't post new threads there anymore. Then they can respond as themselves with their advertising profile on it or use anoth burner punter account to refer themselves.

Even those looking for/whatever happened to xxx ex-advertiser. They know they going to get banned but just use a burner account to freeload and catch some clients.

JP69

Bud, I hear you and often think the same on the vague requests.

I sometimes post when I'm looking for specific treatments. But Cape Town is fucking shiiiiiit!!!! We hardly get any replies anyway.

And yes, I put in the work. But after 20 messages, half baked replies and no sorry or it's equal to a bond payment, one has to spread the net wider and at least hope other punters have recommendations.

I only also put requests down that my regulars don't do.

Take my last post about looking for a proper deep throat session in CT. I almost have a better chance of falling pregnant. I've been through a few visits in the past few weeks and all those that promised they could, gave decent head but couldn't deliver on what I was actually looking for.

Luckily a jhb lady connected on DM and said she'd mouth ride my cock until her make up streamed down her face. Now, I eagerly await her arrival.