I have a regular lady who I visit about 2-3 times a month. She is hot, excellent service and super accommodating. We have good chemistry on the bed.

The thing is, at my last visit she said some super racist stuff and was heavy into issues around white genocide in SA, pro US ambassador, and how the US needs to "take out" the K (yes that word was actually used) politicians.

This was the pillow talk after the deed, so I smiled, showered and left. But I felt bad about myself the whole day after and I was actually upset. I could not believe that she was so right-wing in her views. Previously she was always anti-ANC and the government, like we all are most times. But this was different.

I don't think I can visit her again. I also believe that she was serious in a moment when she let her guard down.

Do I move along or realised that I'm here for the sex not the conversation?

Don't take it personally. You are definitely there for the sex. Her pillow talk might get under your collar but brush it off and go back to see her. Also tell her you don't want to discuss politics.

Sad reality. I've had many instances.

Some were a case of brush it off and move on where it's not so blatant or disrespectful but maybe just a case of old-fashioned thinking and upbringing bit overall a genuinely nice person and a great fuck. Like let's say they don't see black clients because they never have and they don't know what to expect or if they can handle a BBC os something but not really hatred but maybe fear of the unknown or social norms in their environment.

Then other cases, it was more a case of showing true colours where they're vile people that hate an entire race or gender but putting a show to earn money from them by pretending to be nice. This type, I could never revisit knowing how they truly thought and felt about another race or gender. Like they won't ever day anything racist ok the forum ond talk nicely about clients but when they comfortable, they talk about a whole lot of things I won't repeat about how bad another race or gender is and how they wish the worst upon them. This type, I could never revisit. That mental block removes any form of physical attraction. You eish you never had that conversation but the damage is done.

You gonna have to decide for yourself how severe it was but if it had you feeling uneasy and down for an whole day after, it sounds like the later. You paying for the experience to come out feeling good and on top of the world with a spring in your step. Why waste money to come out feeling shit?

JP69

On 2026-03-16 17:59:51 depends69 said:
I have a regular lady who I visit about 2-3 times a month. She is hot, excellent service and super accommodating. We have good chemistry on the bed.

The thing is, at my last visit she said some super racist stuff and was heavy into issues around white genocide in SA, pro US ambassador, and how the US needs to "take out" the K (yes that word was actually used) politicians.

This was the pillow talk after the deed, so I smiled, showered and left. But I felt bad about myself the whole day after and I was actually upset. I could not believe that she was so right-wing in her views. Previously she was always anti-ANC and the government, like we all are most times. But this was different.

I don't think I can visit her again. I also believe that she was serious in a moment when she let her guard down.

Do I move along or realised that I'm here for the sex not the conversation?

You know the answer to your own question, my guy.

She is probably regurgitating conversations she hears from her clients.

On 2026-03-16 17:59:51 depends69 said:
I have a regular lady who I visit about 2-3 times a month. She is hot, excellent service and super accommodating. We have good chemistry on the bed.

The thing is, at my last visit she said some super racist stuff and was heavy into issues around white genocide in SA, pro US ambassador, and how the US needs to "take out" the K (yes that word was actually used) politicians.

This was the pillow talk after the deed, so I smiled, showered and left. But I felt bad about myself the whole day after and I was actually upset. I could not believe that she was so right-wing in her views. Previously she was always anti-ANC and the government, like we all are most times. But this was different.

I don't think I can visit her again. I also believe that she was serious in a moment when she let her guard down.

Do I move along or realised that I'm here for the sex not the conversation?

You'll keep feeling but about yourself. This is fun and fantasy land babe. Where men can very seen heard, having an amazing passionate time and leave feeling amazing.
You can't have a whole toxic relationship here. If I ever have a client feeling like that it's time to pack up and leave the industry. It's also tragic for heart to walk around with that heart. It's toxic and like I mentioned what this is has no place for that. This is the escape.
You answered your own question.

There are a lot of hot and racist service providers that provide excellent service. Are you going to resort to jerking off? I highly doubt it.

The difference here is that she spoke about it whilst others don't. Stay away from such topics unless you also hold the same views. Pomp and go.

Next time, take something and rail the sh*t out of her. In fact every time you go there. Stop making love. You're there for the sex.

I'm with @syla on this..
...if you unhappy with her views punish the shit out of her...and stop taking things personally..you there to Fuck, not running a podcast.

On 2026-03-17 02:48:01 Syla said:
Next time, take something and rail the sh*t out of her. In fact every time you go there. Stop making love. You're there for the sex.

Agreed let her take another hard round for the country. Besides her mouth could have been put to better use instead of spewing her kuk stories