I just have to say it, it's unfortunate that the rule to ban users who ask about ladies who aren't currently advertising exists purely because there are ladies who used that as a means to bypass having active ads. Some of us have genuine queries with hopes that someone will assist in either helping to get in touch or to let us know whether or not the person we're enquiring about is still reachable. As much as the rule sucks I also have to say that I understand why ESA has and fair play to them.

This particularly sucks for girls who work at venues and start afresh with new profiles.

Unless she's showing her face on the profile, you'll just keep losing track of some great ladies. Especially if you don't have time to monitor the forum daily.